Awesome advice thank you so much.
You don't need him in your guys life then hun I'm sorry your going through this :( if he doesn't want to be a part of the child's life then he don't deserve to be! He's obviously not responsible or mature or man enough to step up and be a father! Next step to do is file for sole custody so he dont try to take the baby in the future if he does change his mind. Also you need to take him to court for child support! Save the messages he sent u about not wanting to be a part of the baby's life
You have to have the confidence that you can make it without him. Once you get that confidence come up with a plan and/or goals and take it from there! You'll be fine...if all us other single mom's can make it happen so can you!!!