I'm finding more and more that when someone posts something even mildly offensive that everyone flocks to it with pitchforks raised. Maybe you feel like your pregnancy was a gift from God and were even praying during conception. Maybe you are a bit scared to start over with a baby now that your other children are older. Maybe you are all on your own. First time mom or eighth time mom, we all have worries. How would you feel if your child just needed a little help, some understanding, a pat on the back that says "honey, you can do this"? Being someone's POSITIVE influence is so much better than breaking out the tar and feathers. Please ladies. You don't have to open your hearts to every post but if you don't have anything helpful and supportive to say, please shut your mouths.