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10485665 tn?1411740029

What friends??

I'm a ftm and I feel like I have no friends at all except for my husband.. All of my girls are being distant.. I feel like all I have is family and do not get me wrong, I loveee them, but a girl needs her girls... is it me? Or because I'm pregnant?..
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Im the same way , I feel since I got pregnant no one wants to hang out no more. My bestfriends won't even talk to me that much anymore. I mean if they're your bestfriend I feel they should be there for me.  
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Other then having no friends. Do you like being a stay at home mom? I'm debating on staying home with my child but it seems that most women become lonely and depressed.  I hope I'm wrong, it's just an observation.  
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Glad that you could reach out! I've created a virtual community of moms to try to connect more! I'm 6 wks pregnant and have a 19 mo old. Check out the movement of moms blog on blogspot. Blessings!
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Well, I didn't read all the above comments, but just let me say, I can relate. I do have the support of my husband,  but don't have any strong family connections, and I don't make girlfriends, easily,  at all. I go to church and try to be involved, volunteer etc., but I have a difficult time connecting intimately
W people,  and I hate that about myself.  I'm so alienated from people,  I don't think I'm even going to have a shower. Anyway,  take care.
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10485665 tn?1411740029
Thank you so much!.. you don't know how good it feels to read your responses... is sad how some people just come and go but it could be worse... I'm gonna try to meet new ppl and hang with some others that I haven't seen in a while.. I just need to not let it affect me, because it obviously doesn't affect them!.. thanks again ladies!
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People go their separate ways. I've lost friends and gained friends. Some are people Imet in hihighschool but never thought I'd be friends with until noworries since most have babies,  I have also gained back old friends. Just find people with a common interest.
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10517267 tn?1410892723
Ya im alone at home for weeks at a time my husband is a truck driver. No friend n just talk to him over the phone
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Same here alone all day at home with nobody around and friends don't come around anymore. Hubby is my only friend
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10517267 tn?1410892723
I know what u mean ive lost all my girl friends too all i got is my husband it does het very lonley sometimes u just need girl friends to talk to but they aint there .... Im sorry sweetie i know what ur going thru.
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I lost a lot of my friends when I got pregnant... but i found better ones... now I'm on baby number 2. And the new friends i got are sticking with me.
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It's not you. Be glad you have your family and the support of your man. But i understand what you mean. Sometimes it gets lonely.
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