very confusion please help

[sweatteachristina27]

So im 9 weeks pregnant n  going through hell .
the farher of my bby dont want it hes 47 and im 27 .We've been dealing with each other for over 3 years. Hes always told me he didnt want kids n I understood that . Until I got pregnant.  He wanted me to get an abortion but im to scared too. When I've tryed to reach out to him hes always angry because of what I choiced .by him being angry n me to me like I did something wrong he hangs up on me n makes me even madder n I start going in with the cursing . So he blockes me .We havent  talk for months since then.  What should I do

[happy1stTIMEmommy]

If being a single mother isn't an option for you, there are many wonderful couples who are unable to get pregnant that want to adopt. Just another option. :)

[susanhunni]

Hi Christina,
You are wasting your time and affections on a man who has different goals and plans then your own.  You need to focus on yourself and making a good life for you and your baby.  Education, job, moving forward.  In time a man who really loves and values you will come into your life.  For now, be strong, make goals and move on.  There is no happiness in being with someone who doesn't truly love you.  Work hard on yourself and everything you want will come your way.

[kdelajoya]

You can do it alone. I am having baby 4. All my kids I have raised alone. Was not planned that way but life happens. Be strong for your baby. There is places out there that can help you don't be afraid to ask for help. When things seem to difficult like you can't figure it out ask god to guide you. Be the best mom you can be.

[ayd3nm0mma]

Get ready to be a single mother:) i am 21 with 2 kids and currently pregnant with my 3 for my age people look at me crazy. But ive been there and back ive lost.my son in a custody battle ,my first born, i went thru abuse mentally and physically and was still made out to be the bad one becuase i didnt have the money for attorneys like he did, he denies my daughter ,2nd born, but ya know what not a day goes by i regret any of my kids. I didnt want my daughter due to losing my son i had no connection to her no love for her nothing but that moment when you hold that baby in your arms, you will feel what true love is. To know thats yours, you made that. Its your job to love and care for that child. Do whats right. I struggle everyday but i manage and make up.with love in money i dont have.

[Starkskai]

I believe you should stuck with your first choice. Just prepare yourself to be a single mom and put him on child support when the child is here