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11 weeks pregnant & worried I no longer love my boyfriend
We have been together for 6 months. At the beginning I wasn't nearly as interest in him as he was me, but he treats me so well that I learned to love him. We get along really well, rarely ever fight. Recently we moved in together and my feelings are fading more with each day. I can tell he still really loves me, but I have always had trouble truly caring for anyone but myself(horrible I know). He just gets cranky moods, and I am a person that is happy all the time so it drives me crazy to be around someone like that! Also, he acts like a queen when something doesn't go his way. I want it to work so badly, maybe it's just being pregnant so soon and newly living together that's throwing me off. Is it normal for feelings to fade and come back? I just feel horrible cause he does everything for me, but still I don't know if I love him! Sometimes I wonder if I am just incapable of love.
It always helps. I was in a relationship throughout high school and when I decided to leave him I had to go to a counselor to even realize it. I thought the world would end but a counselor helped me through it and I am now married to a wonderful person and we are expecting our first baby. Sometimes it takes someone else to help u realize what you need to do to be happy
Good advice. I think speaking to someone who has no biast opinion would help.
Good advice. I think speaking to someone who has no biast opinion would help.
That's a good point. Exactly why I've never understood people getting married before they have lived together.
Pregnancy does bring on hormones but that isn't a reason to ignore how you feel. Some people believe that staying together is better for a child . But reality is you don't want your child to grow up with parents whom aren't in love/ a healthy relationship. My best advice would be to see a counselor on your own to talk through your emotions and then with your partner. Sometimes when you talk to someone else you say things you didn't even realize you felt. Good luck with your relationship and congratulations on your child.
No it's nothing wrong with it u can just b very irritable becsuse u r pregnant or maybe u just lost the feeling I use to Love my boyfriend so much and now I could careless and we been together only a year the 7th of this month but he has cheated in the past that has changed my feelings now the closer I get to my due date which is in the next 8weeks now he wants to get married and ect... but I just not that into him now and I wasn't in the 1st place from the start
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One of my favorite quotes is "you never truly know almoner until you live with them".
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