Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

dnt know

Im 4 mts pg & still no doc :( & having problems with so much stuff  .....
Stress is killíng meh & my bf seems to not care at all .... we are mosty mad at all the time  && still no help form noone  no fam and friends here thier like 6 hrs away  ..
Feel alone and sad at all the tinme

Any advice ....
8 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
Do you qualify for medicaid? If so, they will pay for everything and set you up with rides to appointments.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
U just need to stay calm and relax and tell him if u start crying it is the hormones. This will remove his reluctance from opening up bc he doesn't want u crying.
Just tell him u want to move pass this and get to a better place and if he wants that then move forward. Ask him the questions u want and let him ask u questions without getting mad. Lots of changes happen when u r pregnant and men r not use to this.
U need to work it out and if it doesn't happen u have your answer
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I do want to talk to him but i feel he aint gunna undurstand me at all  i think because i been sad and worried
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Okay
Do you both want this baby? If you do then it is u and him and u both need to figure out what is the problem and move past it somehow. You both stressed but u have each other.
If he is not there for u and does not want this baby. Then u need to decide what u can do to make your life less stressful like move back home, get assistance and surround yourself with people who do cate about u.
It sounds like there is more to the story and u have to be completely honest with yourself.
I hope for u that u both want this baby but u need to talk and get over whatever is causing the rift and come together as a team or it will get worse. Once u talk hug and go out or watch a movie etc.
You can do it on your own or together but u need to be strong trust me I did it at 15 yrs old and I am educated own my own house car etc. Take care and make the best of it bc as u get further on in pregnancy it will get harder. Find a Dr. Call everywhere call assistant places that can help u anything
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
@mrssalazar91 i mean like right knw i dnt have ah car or nothing  & i had  ah fríend helping me but like i feel she dnt want to so i aint gunna beg her  ......

I tried but i can tell he dnt want to  at al so ima not beg him thiers times i wanna move bck with my family like my mom but shes always mad at me and i have prnblems their  with my brother and sis in law they always  talking smack ahou me  idk what to do :-(
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I think u should juss have a day with no stress and juss try and talk to your bf and talk to him about how you feel . but if that does not work then juss don't stay stressed out Cause of him you have a baby to take care of and it not him you gave to care for yourself If no one. Else is.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Ive been there my 1st pregnancy me and my husband couldnt get along i kept stressing and unfortunately had a miscarriage i don't want that to happen i dont know you but my prayers are with you just remember you dont need no one but yourself and baby!! :) your not alone you have us here and yoir little baby
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Try not to stress as hard as that might seem its not good for your baby . && why dont you have a doctor??? What kind of help do you need ?
Helpful - 0

You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy: Social Community

Popular Resources
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.