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how to tell the kids

I was 12 weeks pregnant with twins. Had to go to ER today started bleeding. I miscarried both babies.
I have a 6&3 year old who were so excited about the new babies. How do i tell them there are not babies anymore?
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Thanks everyone, I needed that
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Pray about it & ask GOD to give y'all closure . I'm so sorry for your loss. Tell the kids what happened & that they went to be with Jesus and just know that y'all will get to see them precious babies again one day . Everything happens for a reason.  Keep your head up & stay strong . Give your body time to cope with the loss & heal . It's okay to cry . :) lots of prayers sent yalls way.  
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I would take them out for a nice dinner and then calmly tell them what happened. Be strong and try not to shed a tear because if they see you break down it will be worst on them. Cry if you have too but in close doors sweetie and away from the kids. Hope that helps
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