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low sex drive

I want the great feelings that come with sex but I feel like I don't want to do it as often. And my husband used to initiate it all the time but now he rarely does. I feel unsexy :/ I'm 31 weeks and feel like a blimp. He says he's still attracted to me but I don't think he's satisfied after. Now it's pretty much in and out and done. I'm just feeling really depressed about it and worried that even after I have the baby we won't go back. :( I don't know what to do to spice things up. I've always been the more shy one in sex.
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Same here girl  they get scared thinking they might hurt the baby or something might happen to the baby n u! I'm telling u this cuz me n my husband were just talking about this n he was asking me that he didn't wanted to have sex because he was scared of hurting me or the baby we love to have sex no matter how we do it we still do it just try n were something sexy no matter if u have your big tummy feel confident about your self don't let him see that u feel uncomfortable with your body hope this will help u girl
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Hes still attracted to you. Some men just feel weird knowing theres a baby in your stomach now. Maybe reasure him everything okay. I had the same problem but all it was, was him being scared he was hurting the baby.
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