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needing some advice :(

ive been seeing a guy for 8months and been staying with eachother for 3+months with my 2 young sons. we love eachother as we are close but he does not want a relationship. but u would assume we are in one. we sleep next to eachother evetynight kiss goodnight ect just no sex anymore .. but we found out im 7weeks pregnant after him trying to be a day for 20 years with previous relationships.. but hes said he wishes he was younger even 3 years ago . hes 44. i dont know what to do we spoke about termination about 2 weeks ago but i havent brang it up since cause i cant get myself to do it and i dont know how to tell him
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PUT HIM OUT & MOVE ON CAUSE HE SHOULD KNOW WHAT HE WANT BY NOW . & YALL HAVE A CHILD INVOLVED NOW
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Hi my boyfried and i are both 19 years old and when we found out i was pregnant he became a responsible young man if he can do it im sure a 44 yr old dude can too if not move on and take care of the baby that is on the way!
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Why would you want  be with someone who clearly states he doesn't want to be with you?
Keep the baby if you but get rid of the loser!
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U take care of u and ur two boys. Dont worry about him if he doesn have his life straight by now chances arent he wont later
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U shouldn't have to tell him anything, your not in a relationship anymore. Id keep the baby and move on from the loser.
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Please, don't do anything that you will regret later.Right now you have to take care of yourself and that new life growing inside of you. Also your other two boys need you. If he doesnt want to be part of this blessing well then is his loss. He is not a child but he is surely acting like one by not standing up for whats right. If he didnt want a baby he should had taken care of himself. To me he's a scum,since he is not thinking about your feelings but what he wants. Sorry for such a long reply to your post asking for advise. Im here if you need someone to talk too. Been in your shoes as well but god gave me such a beautiful blessing who I love today.
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Your post is confusing
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