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on a sinking ship at 23 weeks

As of right now I feel like I have no support or helpfor this... the baby daddy's "lefted" if I want to say that almost 2 months ago now n my parents came downto help me move back in with them out of state now they are wanting to stay down here after I have already got things ready for me to movewith them. I have no medic. To even try and go see my oh for july.. any help or words of wisdom would be ever helpful right now please
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Mentioned age* geeez lol
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I meant ironed age because I wasn't sure if you were financially stable to support a baby and life(bills rent car etc) all together on your own right away* if so then no need to move home other than for support.
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not sure on your age, but if you can move home for the last two months of the pregnancy+at least the first month of the baby's life then do it. Only because the help your mom can give you that first month will be tremendous. But I'd move out on your own if possible as soon as you can because even if they say "they won't help that much/your on your own" etc they will! They will end up NOT wanting you to leave and wanting to raise their baby over you! It happens, something about grandparents going crazy for grandbabies lol at least that's the experience I've know some friends have.
I moved in with my mom after delivery, just for two weeks. The help was monumental but once I moved out they realized it was my baby and still spoiled her.
No matter what never feel like your on your own, you have a baby, you will never be alone & no matter what is going wrong in life...one you look at the baby you will always have a reason to stay optimistic. No matter what life works out, get foodstamps,wic if it's available.also depending on your finances living with parents could help you save some money, just agree with them how long you plan on staying there. Best wishes to you <3
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