Stupid Men

[Cassi1992]

So i went to the hospital today to see if anything was wrong with my baby cause i haven't felt him move or kick for over 36 hours. The doctor booked me an appointment for tomorrow morning at 9:15am. My fiancè/baby daddy thinks work is more important then going to this ultrasound instead he wants his mother to take me. He knows i dont get along with his mother that well and that i won't want her to take me.
I honestly don't know what to do or say anymore, I'm at a total loss woth this pregnancy with my last 2 weeks

[ShannyO]

I wasnt talking about you Cassi1992. I responded to someone trying to correct me with incorrect info. Had nothing to do with at all.

[Cassi1992]

Actually ShannyO I didn't use incorrect information.. if you can read properly.

And ya hes like that to we'll see how tonight goes..
But i had my emergency ultrasound and the baby is fine my mom ended up taking me.

[niolaisthebest]

I also had the same problem my childs dad would always go out every weekend get drunk he wouldnt act like a father , e also wanted me to get a abortion but i wouldnt , so when we argue he says he didnt wont this but as soon as we get to the doctor hes happy ,

[ShannyO]

Paternity leave is for dad.
Maternity leave is for mom.
Just clearing up the confusion for the poster trying to correct with incorrect info.
That's why a DNA test for the father is also called a paternity test...not a maternity test.

[Cassi1992]

I dont know why he changed from wanting this baby to why he doesnt.

He never had a second thought about this baby

[Cassi1992]

I dont drive

[knufrio]

If you have a car just bring yourself to the appt that way his mother doesn't have to go. As for the leave I don't understand why he wouldn't at least take the first four weeks since they are paid.

[wife_and_mama2014]

Jeez. I would not even be with him then if those are the things he's saying and doing! I'm sorry he's being such a jackass. That is not okay.

[Nayy_]

Maternity*

[Cassi1992]

Ya im at a total loss with him right now

[DJ_751]

Doesn't sound like a man.

[ShannyO]

WHAT!? He seriously turned down 6 weeks of paternity leave!? My husband would jump at that offer. He has to use the last of his vacation which is only 2 weeks.

[Cassi1992]

Im not just going to ignore the fact that i got pregnant to keep the guy in my life..
She basically called me a unfit parent cause my first son's bio father isnt in the picture

[nonishy]

For your baby you need to put aside your problems with your mother in law and let her take you. After that go ahead and give her the cold shoulder. But you need to find out how your baby is doing first.

[Cassi1992]

Ya he just said "i didn't want this child in the first place"

[wife_and_mama2014]

I'd be upset then. There's no reason he should turn it down if that much of it is paid. Have you told him how you feel about that?

[Cassi1992]

Ya its 4 weeks paid and 2 unpaid.
And no cause all my friends and family live in one city and im an hour away

[hellojojo2200]

Wait... is it paid leave?

[hellojojo2200]

Hmm..id b super pissed if my guy turned down 6weekz.leave...im sorry hun..can u get anyone els 2 take u sonu dnt have 2 deal.with her???friends familly??

[wife_and_mama2014]

I know it *****, and it would be awesome to have him around that long. But would you guys be financially stable enough to be without an income for 6 weeks straight? Not trying to tell you you're wrong for feeling upset, but sometimes we just gotta do things we don't want to :/

[Cassi1992]

His boss knows that im pregnant and have 2 weeks left. My fiancè is the one that turned down 6 weeks of paternity leave..

[wife_and_mama2014]

I'm sure it's uncomfortable for you to go with her when you don't care much for her. But is it really that easy for him to get off work for an appt that's not his? Does he not want to go because he doesn't like going? Or because work will be upset? Gotta remember he works that job for you and baby...