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Im 16 weeks . Me & my baby father arent together at this point due to some things . I feel so down . I cry at times just missing him and how good he eould take care of me and all the cravings ill want ill get pleased. It feels weird being back home and coming to no one home . It hurts even more going through this pregnancy alone . Like if i basically made the baby alone. Thats the part that hurts me more knowing that maybe my kid wont have a good relationship with my babys father. I dont know what to do anymore. I feel as if my child has to pay for everything wrong that went with us. He wont call or text just to simply ask me hows the pregnancy going. Nothing . Like if we dont exist.. this is killing me but slowly by slowly making me strong
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Thank you so much . It just hurts when you give youre all to someone & at the end get nothing but a kick to the curb. My babydaddy was like my bestfriend. And now is like im so alone and cant vent to anyone or have anyone hug me eo tight telling me things will be fine
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Sweetie listen..I'm going through the same thing too. Me and the father of my child aren't together either. When we was together we planned to have a baby then when I was 3 months pregnant I found out he was cheating on me the whole time. He's denying his baby he said that's not his baby he needs a DNA test all that type of stuff..this was supposed to be our first child..but now he got his girlfriend pregnant as well so he got two babies for different mothers. But he said he don't want to have nothing to do with me or the baby. He changed his number and all..so now I have to go through my pregnancy alone..I'm 22 weeks my point is sweetheart don't stres yourself out you'll be ok..
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Im kinda going threw something similar... I feel the same way, and the dad is more then 300 miles away.. talk to me if you need a friend
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I know what you are going thru I am going thru the same thing but it will get better in due time believe me I became stronger and know it's going to be ok. One day he will come around just stay strong
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It is really hard . Then he wants to get an apart
ment under my name and i cant even move in . Like what type of guy does that?
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He wasn't the rite guy for you. A real man doesn't leave his pregnant girl homeless and alone.  You have to live for you and your child now . Put all your strength into making a strong healthy babies.  It will be hard but you will get through it. Just take it one day at a time. We ARE Hear For YOU Beautiful
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