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[khadijah07]

I'm a 19 yr old girl just found out I was pregnant. My boyfriend is excited 100% but I feel its going to ruin our relationship. What do I do?

[des_mommyof2]

Communication is key in any relationship.. as long as you don't stop communicating everything should be okay. It won't be easy, it will be rough and hormones are h*ll but just talk to him and keep talking even when it's hard.

[khadijah07]

Thank you guys so much. I tell him how I feel all the time now.

[Romie13]

Having a baby is not bad, its actually a blessing. When I found out I was pregnant. I had to tell mg boyfriend, yes he had the face of "holly ****" but he's pulling thru. He's helping me a lot. And that's all you need is to give it time. A baby can make your relationship stronger and if he does walk away just know that there is a million of single moms out there that have made it. If this helps any my mom told me that your hormones Can cause you to hate or get frustrated with him. I know because sometimes I flip on my boyfriend for no reason. Just keep your head up high. If its meant to be it well be.!!((:

[dorothy701]

Having a baby is not easy. It is beautiful wondrous and amazing but easy is not a word to use for it. It is financialy worries some espically at your age I understand your worrie but everything happins for a reason keep talking the minute you start holding things back from your bf you are changing your relationship not your baby. And there is so much help out there. Like the lady b4 me said so many women can not have baby's try to remember that that little person inside of you you are creating and that is amazing! And if you want or need advice or help finding help in your area feel free to  message me. Good luck!

[domingoleigh]

if you two really love each other as much then how would a baby created by both of you ruin a relationship? if anything you should be happy.. a child doesn't ruin anything a child is a blessing some ppl struggle to have a baby.. So be grateful. goodlluck...

[GabriellaRenee_]

Talk to him about how youre feeling. I dont think a baby completely ruins a relationship. There will be alot of changes, but if yall have a strong relationship it wont be too difficult to adapt.