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ugh men :/

So my husband knows how much it would help if we have sex.  Even my doctor told him it was a great way to naturally induce labor.   He still won't have sex with me! He's afraid to hurt me. Nothing I say can convince him otherwise. Im due on Wednesday and I bet I'll go way over thanks (or no thanks! ) to him!
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Well, even if it doesn't help,  it can't hurt to try!
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9706480 tn?1405810975
Ladies, I'm 39/4 & hubby and I have been having sex but it's really not making a difference... everybody is different...don't stress!!! Good luck! :-)
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Yes, it's like he wants to purposely delay the inevitable!  I am due tomorrow!   His sperm got me into this mess,  his sperm can help me get out of it!  Haha
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Lol I'm 38 weeks and Im not dilated or effaced at all..I've been saying let's have sex  to get things moving he says no he wants her to cook as long as possible.. Easy for him to say he isn't the one carrying the load
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6918915 tn?1395932871
Mine won't either. We did it like a week and a half or so ago but before that it was a long time. And now I've been wanting it so bad and he is always too tired or something. But I know he's masturbated cuz he admitted that. So basically he's choosing his own hand over me. I realize I'm 38 weeks pregnant and I don't look like a supermodel but it still makes me feel like crap. I think he also doesn't want me to go into labor yet and that's another reason he doesn't want to do it. He keeps telling me he has a busy work week coming up and to hold out til next week lol like his job is more important than our baby and like I want to spend another second being pregnant after spending 38 weeks like this!
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Thanks!
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Try taking primrose evening oil. Works great for effasement and no rips after birth. Works miracles:)
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7058746 tn?1393435420
I'm almost 35 weeks & mine says "no your pregnant. I can't it doesn't work anyways you have watermelon in the way" I have needs to your not the only one. He doesn't get it..
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