sex vent, sorry if tmi

[ciaramarieg]

So I don't really like having sex anymore, but whenever my boyfriend wants to I will. But the thing is I never get satisfied(never have before during sex), and always feel really depressed after because of it and don't want to do it again. I try not to let him know I'm upset because I don't want to hurt his feelings, but it's depressing. We usually only have sex once or twice a week because he's only home on the weekends at the moment, so by then I want to, but I never finish. I just don't know what to do

[ciaramarieg]

I'm only worried about it because I don't want it to affect my relationship with my boyfriend of nearly two years.  understand it's a lot of responsibility(obviously), but not to be rude, we do live on our own and pay our own bills, and because of that I feel like I'm a little more responsible and smarter than some girls my age, especially with my personal experiences throughout my life. I'm sure if you ladies were my age in my situation, and had experienced what I have so far experienced in life, you'd feel as though you had the right to worry about it. I honestly know why I don't orgasm during sex, it's because I'm too insecure about my body to let him do much. It's not like I haven't ever before, obviously I have, just not during sex. I didn't mean any of this in a rude way, just explaining my thoughts and opinions.

[lilpianogirl85]

Girl I didn't experience an orgasm until after I was in college. Not to pull the age card (and please I am not being rude) but you are young and your still learning your own body and how it is developing. I'm not saying it's impossible to orgasm until you are a certain age because that is not true. But give yourself time to learn what works for you because clearly what is happening now isn't working.  And just maybe the reason it's not working is that it's just not time for your to be this sexually active. I'm not downing you for being sexually active and in your current situation I'm just suggesting that there are much more important things at 16 that you can be focusing on them becoming depressed about sex. I hope everything works out for you

[BabyEzzy]

I'm in the same situation, and it is very depressing. You aren't alone girl! Hopefully things will get better.

[quacmon]

Well I'm the total opposite!!! I was out on Bedrest and sex restriction so I got super depressed about it. My fiance doesn't really want to though since he knew his son was in there and my stomach freaked him ou lol. He was relieved when the div said I couldn't but now that I can we still don't. Don't feel bad and it might change. I'm 30 weeks now

[Dani1122]

Also you are so young you shouldn't be worried about sex. Im not judging you but sex is a lot of responsibility and with it comes even more as you know already. But its just something to think about.

[Dani1122]

I haven't been interested in sex since I been pregnant.  I dont feel good all the time and just want to relax.  We used to have sex so much sometimes multiple times a day and now its jusg once or twice a week. I feel bad for him and its causes fights but he doesn't understand.  Im 10 weeks +3 and starting to feel better, maybe things will start being a little normal. You aren't the only one that's dealing with something like that. I hope you find some comfort in that.