is this normal? ? I'm so disgusted and embarrased

[littlemilkmonkey]

My husband and I are staying with my mother for a few weeks while we wait on our house to be ready. We have a 5 month old daughter. My mother doesnt respect us at all. I don't have a lock on my door. She always comes in while I'm breastfeeding she knocks I say no or I'm undressed give me a second and she still comes in and walks right in. I am disgusted and feel angry and gross yet she acts like it's completely normal. I have NEVER heard of anyone's mother doing that. She will grab my *** or boobs and I get angry and she acts like im overly sensitive. What the hell?  I feel molested almost. She'd always walk around the house naked until I moved out. What do I do? Today she just walked right in while I was getting dressed and I had to close the door in her face to get her to leave. Please help.  Oh and we tried to put a lock on the door and she kept screaming and took it off.

[Bellas_Mami12]

My mother & I are very close. But we don't touch each other in sexual ways nor do we walk in a room when we say hold on a min. I don't blame you for feeling embarrassed. Its deff odd. I would have a talk to her about it & let her know how you feel. Tell her she has her own breasts && *** to touch. Has your mother always been this way?. If it doesn't change I would move into a place where you feel more comfortable.

[RockRose]

littlemilkmonkey,  has your mother always been like that?  Honestly,  it seems bizarre to grab your butt and boobs and push her way in while you are telling her you're not dressed and don't come in.  

Are there other things she does that indicate an unstable personality?

[jackieandbraulio]

Now I feel weird because my mom has always been that way. She likes to make me embarrassed because I'm a shy person and I don't like people looking at me but she has always grabbed my boobs butt and just walks in then again it was her house so I don't care about the coming in she is my mom why would I feel angry unless I was having sex. But that's just us our relationship we're comfortable. I love my mom a lot and am comfortable with her that's probably why it doesn't bother me but I understand why it would bother you. Idk just try talking to her but calmly.

[beckyyy1115]

I would be extremely mad if my mother acted that way. My mother would never just walk in my room, especially if I told her I was getting dressed and she certainly wouldn't freak out if I got a lock for my door. And I actually live with my mother and she doesn't charge me a dime. Just because you're staying there for a couple weeks doesn't mean she can touch you like that and it doesn't mean she can see you naked. I think your completely right for being upset. I'd talk to her about it and if nothing changes I'd try to find somewhere else to stay for the time being.

[1Desiree]

I would leave.... that is rude of her to act like that. My mom has seen me naked and I personally don't care about that but if she started grabbing my boobs and butt I'd tell her off. Just because it's her house doesn't mean she has to act like that. My mother is like yours, she still walks around her house naked. That is wrong her just walking in. I would put something in front of the door to keep it from opening

[blanca_13]

If it's no hassle for you to stay in a motel or hotel for the time you have left to wait for your house I'd say go for it. I would not tolerate that from my mother. It's weird as hell

[bpam29]

I would feel so uncomfortable. I wouldn't handle that well at all. I'd definitely say something. Just cause you're staying their for a couple weeks DOES NOT mean you should feel so violated. That's just weird to me. I'm sorry it's like that because if I were you I'd legit freak out

[Patriciaaa02]

My mom doesn't see me naked bc I don't let her but she says she's my mom and she knows what I look like and I shouldn't be embarrassed but she doesn't touch my butt or breast that's awkward I would feel molested too

[littlemilkmonkey]

So if it's her house she can grab me?  Anyone else doing that and that's called sexual assault but because she's my mom or I'm in her house it's okay?  

[littlemilkmonkey]

Their house is paid off and they offered to let us stay there instead of a hotel but that's besides the point. Do other moms just casually see their grown children naked? ? And we literally needed to stay somewhere for just 3 weeks. Not live with them

[Mamaofdeux]

Are you paying rent? If you pay rent then keep putting a lock back up if you're not paying rent than you don't really have much to go on. I know that sounds kind of rude and it is wrong of her to keep walking in on you like that but in her eyes she probably has the 'my house my rules' policy. Try sitting her down and talking to her about it but if that doesn't work try and find somewhere else to go.

[thatsweetboysmommy]

That sounds pretty odd..why does she need to come in so often? Have u tried sitting her down and telling her how you feel? Im sorry. Hopefully the time will pass quickly!