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[caseysj]

Today my boyfriend tells me that he has been still having sex with Da mother of his two of kids and she's pregnant and so am i I'll be six weeks tomorrow im very upset in hurt

[10Angels]

Dont ever take the guilt and blame. It is in NO way your fault that your man is a cheating lying scumbag...and really
..how do you know if he really was split from his ex? For all you know you cuda been the chick on the side without knowing it coz men like that are extremely manipulative. You said he had older kids to her already so it seems to me like they were never separated if he was still sleeping with her. But whatever it was... its not your fault and please remember that. I f¥€ken HATE cheaters theres no excuses for it when people could be honest from the start then theres no reason for guilt, blame and broken hearts!!!!!

[Catherinee28]

Leave him! I'm 26 weeks and found out my boyfriend was cheating on me when I was 3 months pregnant! If he doesn't respect u he doesn't love you. Have self value trust me I'm going through something similar

[Kailynns_Mommy_2015]

Walk awayyyyy!!  Nobody deserves to be put through that!! It hurts Alot worse to stay & never trust that someone again. I wouldn't know because my pride wouldn't let me stay no matter WHAT! MY bags are packed & I'm out! Life is kinda nice sometimes when u can focus on YOU & (ur baby) & now u have an awesome blessing who will always love u. That's all you really need!! Focus on you, your baby, & career plans! It's an awesome feeling to be able to be comfortable with yourself & take care of your own! I'm so sorry you got done that way bc I wouldn't wish it on Anybody & sometimes that pain is hard to work through at first but Love yourself & work through it! Support groups & family help Alot! God bless u & ur mini!!!!!!

[kj_skibum]

Cheaters don't change. I CAN NOT SIN THE PRAISES OF BIRTH CONTROL, AND WISER SELECTION OF SEX PARTNERS....We have choices ladies....these guys can only screw us around when we let them....Leave this guy, abort, give up for adoption, or love and raise this baby BUT, be better educated about birth control and sex partner selection in the future. If you don't think you can count on a man to be a dad, then don't sleep with him.

[smallbby]

This is hard to go through but just remember he doesn't love you if he loved you you wouldn't be going through this. I wouldn't be able to even talk to him. Sorry momma :(

[Miszydd]

Don't stress this is a very critical time for you and the baby, try to keep yourself busy. It's so hard to control your emotions so early in the pregnancy. Leave him a lone til your ready.

[omg35andpregnant]

It's so hard to let him go when you love him and your carrying his child. But at the end of the day you have to put yourself and your child first. Once he shows his true character there is no turning back. If he treats you like this while your pregnant and extremely emotional he's showing you his true colors. Hopefully he will do right by your child. We have to know our worth. Good luck

[kaelitha]

It's pathetic you would still consider a guy that is cheating on you your bf. And not being able to have sex is a bs excuse, there's other ways to please your man and if he really cared for you he could wait. Cheaters never change and is that type really someone you want to bring up your child with? Your son thinking its ok to cheat cause daddy did it or daughter getting cheated on and sticking with a scumbag cause you did?

[pyurluv]

Listen nvm all that fighting. The best thing for you to do at this moment is let his ratchet behind go and take care of your baby. Be sure to make him equally responsible financially but by no means do you allow him to treat you like that. Have respect for yourself

[manukes4]

I agree non, once I had my first daughter my ambition and expectations of people in my life skyrocketed. Things that I used to tolerate were no longer good enough including her dad. I left him because he wasn't the man i needed him to be. He was a good dad and I made sure I got a child support order because that was less drama for me knowing that I had guaranteed financial support. But he needed time to mature and make better decisions but not on my time. If they think you won't leave then why would they do right by you. Show him that the baby is first now not him.

[nonishy]

Same happened to me 12yrs ago when I was pregnant with my first child....When my kid was 3wks old the other girl was 5months pregnant.  I found out he cheated when i was just a couple months pregnant.  I left him and was a single mother till i finally met a wonderful man about 2 years ago. Now I'm pregnant with my 2nd child.
Anyways, if a man truly loves you he wouldn't do this to you. My husband explained it to me a few days ago why he would not cheat...He said he has a wonderful wife, a wonderful child (step child). And a baby on the way. And that he's happy with our life and relationship. Why would he ruin it just for a one night stand or an organ that he can get from me or his hand if I'm not in the mood.
You ladies need to leave these boys and don't look back. They will continue to do this to you, and hurt you and disappoint you. They obviously have no respect for you, and no respect for the family.
One day you will meet a real man. And be very happy. But you won't meet this man until you leave these losers.

[bribrigotababy]

if yall know he has side chicks and stuff and you still giving him chances thats yalls fault fool me once shame on you fool me twice cant put the blame on you. get your heads right

[10Angels]

The star block was a word one might use to describe a kitty cat starting with a P.....and thats what men like that are...PU$$¥$!!!!!

[10Angels]

Shanie01...NEVER turn the other cheek!!! We women are NOT doormats and should NEVER EVER let a ***** fag like that wipe their feet all over us!! ESPECIALLY when we are at our most vulnerable time in life... pregnancy. We go through enough emotion going through the changes of having children as it is and should never roll over and accept that kind of treatment!!!!! We are QUEENS and totally deserve an awesome king to treat us as we deserve and NO less. Also NO child should see their mother being treated this way either as the saying goes "monkey see monkey do" female or male.

[keyetta_]

If your going to leave him, leave him because that's what you want to do because if you leave him and your not sure the chance of you going back wards are high. Know your worth and know what your child deserve. Don't ever blame yourself because someone else wrongful doings. You have to get in the mind frame that you can do this on your own because your that strong, once you do that trust me it doesn't matter who leaves you and your child you'll be able to stand alone and be proud so people leaving won't bother you at all.

[mommysoon2b]

U really don't need him I'm leaving my bf and we've been together for five years but he's abusive mainly verbally but once physically when he knew I was pregnant I'm so scared and I no its gonna be hard bcuz I do love him bcuz we've been together so long but its not worth it anymore me and the baby will be better without him so will you

[lurooney]

I have to wholeheartedly agree with 10angels comment,you dont need men like that

[caseysj]

You ladies are right this is my  first child in i  feel as  if i  am to blame Ugh guys  suck

[Crystalwright97]

Wow! Dw karma will do the dirty work love me & my ex was together since school nearly 3year I wanted a kid morstly because I got told after couple surgerys would be hard to get pregnant but he left because he thought he never would get a kid with me he was cheating 247 then got her pregnant then when I moved on got pregnant straight away now I'm nearly 32 week pregnant with a lil Girl over the moon!!:D sit back and wait for him to run back you don't deserve it :)

[danni_07]

The same happen to me and i did kick his ***, but he desided to stay with her the side chick then us his family( my son 5yrs old, im six months, and myself i mean either way he has never helped me, so im happy he stayed with her a weak woman that needs a dickhead that only likes to ****, IM WAY BETTER WITH HIM AWAY FROM MY KIDS, MY KIDS DESERVE A BETTER DAD THAT LOVES THEM, AND NOT A KID THAT PRETENDS TO BE A "MAN", Im sorry for what you are going trhu but after all this you and your baby are gonna be fine, trust me i know :)

[Aresmommy]

Even if your married he can still have an affair.there's no difference

[mommysoon2b]

I'd leave him!

[bubblebean11]

Not judging...but this is why the Lord says marry first, have sex second. I pray you will all find the happiness you deserve :-)

[10Angels]

You ladies need to ditch these dickheads they will continue to do this to yous especially if you do nothing and dont hold them accountable coz in their eyes its like your condoning the behavior and allowing them to behave this way. You dont need them around to be good mothers as scary as it may be, being single will be a lot less stressful and waaay less hurtful. Kick thoze clowns to the curb you both deserve better and so do those babies your carrying.