Aa
things are getting worse
I love my baby girl and I had a 3D ultrasound today I was super excited then the baby's dad had to say something to mess everything up , I love him but now I know it will probably never work out , one day he will say we will eventually work out now he brings in custody talk . I couldn't be excited seeing my baby girl I just wanted to cry the whole time but I didn't seeing her smile stopped me , like everything is getting worse with him I tried to have him around and invite him to things he just doesn't care now
If i was you I would start the custody proceedings before he does and have it on your terms, if he's man enough to stick to them, then agree that someday they can be removed! He's not worth your pain forget about him, you have a little girl to prepare for..
I wish you the best luck. I will pray for you and hope everything gets better. Leave it in God's hand. Everything's is going to be better just pray and keep your faith strong.
It's hard to just ignore him he owes me money still from helping him out awhile ago. I try my best to not talk to him for him to notice that I can't deal with how he is now I told him my feeling and thoughts and he's already lost some friends that were his best friends since middle school because they know what he has put me through and now it has me thinking if I really want him in the delivery room maybe I should just have him come in after
Thank you ladies , it's just nice to hear positive things
Custody probably won't work of he doesn't care now. There are plenty of men who do want to be there for kids that aren't their's. Give the baby your last name, put him on child support and allow visitation but most likely he won't follow through. Some men change though. Be strong for you and your daughter you can do it
Am going thru the very same thing. His sending me mixed signals which I don't understand one day his blue the next his green, I just choose to ignore him because I don't want him being negativeness to rub of on my baby Boy. Just hang in there it all gets better in time
Just need to talk to someone
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