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Married Mama's what's the best thing your husband has done for you?

Positive stories please! So many women  on here don't have husband's and it makes me sad. Need some women to relate to!
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My fiancé works out of town a lot in the oil field so when he's home he rubs my feet, cooks dinner, cleans, tells me to go take a nap & him and my son hang out and play video games, he gets me things I'm craving, no matter what time it is. And he loves to talk to my belly and feel & watch the baby move.
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My BOYFRIEND and I are 17 years old he does everything and anything to keep me happy hes very helpful and caters to my every need we went trew a stealbirth last November n that really effected him when he found out hes been so supportive he gives me a hard time some times but always pulls threw like a MAN so i disagree with your post its BS we are all equal nd our men love us married or not nd it dont take marriage for my bf to b a man maybe that's what it took for ur husband to b a man but not mine
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My partner of 6 years rubs my feet and my back and works damn hard to provide for us! We are not married? But probably been in a longer relationship and know each other a lot better than a lot of you 'blissfully married' mams :-) good luck and I hope those that last have a happy marriage and those of you that don't?  Well I hope you aren't subjected to the prejudice you are displaying
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Im dont understand why people are getting offended from this post... i dont have a husband.. I think its fantastic for these ladies to be lifting their amazing husbands up, as you dont see that happen very often. Coot o's to all you wonderful wives. Keep lifting up your husbands and sharing your joy with the world! I hope to one day be like you :)
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Married me :) he is amazing works hard loves us all so much is great with our son and will be with our next son due dec.
He looks after our little boy while I sleep in if im super tired gives me back massages and helps when needed he is a Blessing from God and ohhh so HANDSOME :) have to pinch myself some days to make sure my life is real its amazing being married to the one the Lord has picked life could not get any better
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Even with my crazy hormones he is the best, he is always giving into my cravings on his days off he cooks helps with the kids even letting me take naps while he deals with them. He does all the grocery shopping and tries to remember all the things that I like to eat he even does all the laundry on his days off. I am truly blessed to have him I love my husband so much.
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I already posted on this but I have been having mood swings like crazy and my husband has been a champ. He spoils me rotten. He is the most amazing man I have ever met in my life. He is truly awesome to deal with me lol. I thank God everyday for such an amazing husband.
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I don't think it should matter if their married or not. My boyfriend does has helped me through all the aches and pains and the cravings. He's had a warm bubble bath waiting for me when I get off work and afterwards he'll rub my feet and my back. He's stocked up on peppermints for when I feel sick, bought me a giant jar of pickles. Makes sure there is apple juice and water in the house constantly. Buys me flowers for no reason, changes the cat box and wakes me up with breakfast in bed. He brushes my hair, rubs lotion or baby oil on my belly and to help me sleep he plays with my hair or rubs my back. When I start stressing out over work or how hard its going to be he kisses me and says "don't worry, I told you I'd take care of you and Simon." Not once have I asked him to do any of this, he does this all on his own. My boyfriend is the best boyfriend in the world and I am so happy that I'm having his child.
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I love thread! Thank you for posting it! I know there's ladies out there that don't have supportive husbands/boyfriends and my heart and moral support goes out to them. But it's so nice to see all of this positivity when there's so much negative talk about the men in this chatroom.

My husband is wonderful. I had to quit my job early in my pregnancy due to complications and my husband has been so supportive threw all of the scary moments.  From picking up extra overtime shifts to helping around the house. He is also so attentive to me emotionally. Somehow he just always seems to know when I need reassurance about the baby or when I'm not feeling very attractive. He always says and does the right things to make me feel better. He's an amazing man. I am truly blessed!
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Let me just say you are ask blessed to have supportive husbands that's shows LOVE:) mine isnt too lovey but he does put lotion on me after a shower and rubs my feet when I ask.
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MrsBehr, if no group is formed for married women, this is definitely a good go to thread. I love it! :)

I thought of two more things. My husband has taken over cleaning the litter boxes. He also would always make me feel better on my unproductive days (from vomiting or fatigue).He would say to me, "did you grow a baby today?" I would respond yes, and he would say "you were productive."
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My wonderful hubby has always been a consistent dream come true and has always spoiled and pampered me in every way but since I have hyperemesis and decided to just become a stay at home mom to my 14 month old,  hubby: takes great care of our 14 mth old and myself by making us breakfast/lunch /dinner before he heads to work for his 12 hr shift, he rearranges his schedule to take us to our dr appts even though I could drive myself, he cleans the house, he does the laundry,  he makes sure we have things that we need and just want, he does all of the errands/any appt scheduling,  gives me a daily all over rub, bathes our daughter,always tells me how beautiful I am and how much he loves me...tells our daughter the same, he religiously plays with and read to our daughter and unborn baby, is beyond patient with me and my hormones and even with a hectic work schedule and homelife he gets up in the wee hours of the morning functioning on "fumes" to still take care of our daughter or make me some oven toast. The hyperemesis keeps me vomiting all day but I am still willing to do things for my family but since I am with our daughter his entire work shift he just wants me to focus on myself and our daughter and not have much to do. My family and friends always joke about wishing my hubby could be cloned and boy oh boy, while we can occasionally bump heads over little things (way to go me) I can honestly say that I thank God for him, feel truly blessed and never want to know a life without him...and not just because I married someone who treats me well but because he Genuinely without a shadow or a doubt loves me and his main focus in life is to see our family happy. Sorry for being long winded but I could've gone on and on...lol...the sad part is that I just realized in thinking about how much he does...I sometimes take his genie in a bottle spirit for granted and just expect him to do these kinds of things because he has always been my personal genie even before the babies.  Great post though.....thanks!!! I'm glad i ran across it and now im off to make hubby feel special.

Best wishes ladies and congrats on your pregnancies! !
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My honey rubs my feet... goes out at all hours of day and nighy just to get me my cravings... gets water ready for a hot bath.. OH HES THE BEST!!

He SPOILS ME ROTTEN... and this is my 3rd pregnancy... so im guessing itll always just get better and better! :)
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Anytime my husband is around he insist that I not carry anything basically.  Which is funny because I am a stay at home mom with  two year old. But a break while he is around is great for my back :)
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It's good to see the positive stories about good husbands!
Mine has been a champ. He does anything I ask. One of my favorite things is that he justifies the things I worry about. Like being crazy, moody, lazy, emotional, etc. He makes sure I remember it's all worth it.
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idk if I.count because we had the ceremony and signed the papers and all but the pastor forgot to send it in after he said he would but my hubby gets anything I crave, offers to rub my feet everyday at least twice, rubs my back, makes me take the vitamins, has gone to every doctors appointment with me, has taken over the house chords that involve chemicals of any sort, exercises with me everyday even if he doesn't want too, and even tries to talk to our baby and rubs cream on my tummy when I forget. :) he's a sweetheart
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My husband wakes up with with our son every morning around 6:30 and insists that I stay in bed so that i can get more rest.
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My husband has been awesome he talks to my son and kisses and rubs my belly. He lets me sleep in and on his days off he wakes up with the dogs to take them outside and play so I can get more rest
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My husband talks to the baby everynight and kisses "it" goodbye before work. So now my 3yr old is doing it lol :)

He also bought me roses yesturday bc he felt bad for going out with his best friend who came to visit from a deff state. Hes so sweet ♡♡
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My husband pretty much waits on me hand and foot! I had a very rough first trimester and now im in my 3rd trimester and he brings me a drink, cooks me dinner, rubs my back, cuddles with me when im having a bad day!!! He is amazing and i couldnt ask for anyone better! He loves kissing my belly and talking to our daughter :)
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Mrslolly that is too funny and 19lauren87 you're welcome! I do not think we can make a group, so I figured this is the next best thing!!
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Awwwe!! These are such sweet men all you ladies have! It was asked if it matters if you're married. Well, it does in God's eyes and I believe a marriage distinguishes a man from a boy, because a real man makes that commitment to the woman he loves, especially if he is already making babies with her. Love these posts and definitely got me teary. We are truly blessed to have men that love and care for us in these ways! Keep 'Em coming!!
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I'm surprised my husband hasn't left me lol I am horrible right now. He gets me any and everything I desire. He lets me sleep til 12 and he doesn't houndme about not cleaning.
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Mine rubs cocoa butter on my tummy and feeds me whatever i'm craving. Hes been amazing through my pregnancy...
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