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about the fathers...

How are the soon to be daddy's taking the pregnancy? My boyfriend is so protective about it he gets mad if I miss a day taking my vitamins lol. He rubs my belly and talks to her too. I love it because I didn't get that with my son, I was a single mother for 6 years and it's so nice to have my bf in our lives now!
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The baby daddy is 40 in 3 days and has been a total *** hole. This is his first child and doesn't care about it. Actually told me that I never gave him a choice and this is was what I wanted. That this is all on me. :(
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My husband is so protective.he remind me always about my milk en vitamins.. he yelled at me wen we go 2 the mall en return to the house at the evening coz its cold..he do the laundry coz he dont want me 2 make tired. En etc etc.. en especially wen he goes home after school he buy me food dat i like.

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My husband claims he is too old and complains Alot but I do not care this is my first and his fourth he is not going to ruin this for me!! I would like one more after this but he is dead set on this being his last! So this might be my one and only
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My hubby is very excited. He rubs my back when it hurts and makes sure that I am always OK... (fed, water, vitamins, ect). He has always been very protective of my well being. Love him!
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8959885 tn?1409065467
My fiance is all sorts of protective and excited. He worries about everything though but im not complaining it shows he cares. He talks to our son all the time and he kisses and rubs my belly every night and morning
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So cute. My bf is very excited about the baby. Sometimes I'm so happy to go to work or when he goes to work because I can't do anything. Every few seconds it's are you ok, I think you should eat this and not that, why don't you nap now and he already has a list of does and donts for me and her.I think it's so cute but sometimes I have to tell him to relax. I'm scared to see what kind of crazed dad he's going to be when she's here!
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9621682 tn?1409549221
Awww... my husband is happy and excited but doesn't show it... I tried signing him up for daddy boot camp that keiser permanente offers but he doesn't want to go... I tell him to talk to our daughter that she can hear him kinda and he says no.... he says she doesn't exist until she is born... he is awesome with infant toddlers bit I just don't think it's hit him that he is going to be a dad finally... Idk... he supports every craving gives me everything I want and stuff but I just wish he was more excited maybe later I'm 6 months
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Aww how cute, yes my bf is the same way, he makes sure i eat take my pills drink plenty of water play music for our son... and it was really hard to adjust to that given my kids father never did any of that withy pregnancies i felt single and learned to do everything alone so i had to try amd step back and know he is doing it from a good place!

congrats to you and him!!!
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^^ lol...okaii.
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7754577 tn?1397304688
My fiance is super excited!!! All he talks about is how he's ready to meet her and spend time with her!!!
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Im happy he is protective but its a bit ridiculous he doesnt like me walking anywhere i just go when hes sleeping i need exercise! He says it's too hot even when its not and he gets so mad at me anytime i stress because its not good for the baby im due in 4 weeks with my first how do you not stress?? Lol
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7213941 tn?1397087659
My boyfriend is ready to have our son here. He is being extremely protective, too, which I love. I can't even count the number of bottles of hand sanitizer is our house and SUV's and diaper bag lol...he constantly says that NOONE will touch our son without sanitizing first. :) I know it is true, but he is so serious that it is adorable, and I love his protective nature. :) We have discussed a lot of other things, too, like that we don't want other people posting photos of him online, because that will be our choice when we decide. And how we decided I'm staying off the public registry at the hospital to avoid an overload at the hospital. Just makes me glad that he is really ready and takes it seriously.
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Definitely over protective! He gets angry with me for even being alone just because our due date is so near! I'm glad he's cares so much!
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My hubby says he's happy and excited but hasn't been asking me how I'm doing or if he can do something for me. He's a selfish prick!
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