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trying to stay stress free

My boyfriend has consistently been very argumentative and doesn't seem to understand what I'm going through im 33weeks and i refuse to stress anymore about anything else  at this point i just wanna have my baby. But i love him very much and i know he loves me and that he will be such a wonderful father....but it's like we can't have a decent conversation anymore everything turns into yelling and i just can't do that to myself and definitely not to my baby .... anybody advise please!!
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So sorry about your. Situation with the affair......and yes i think he's overly stressed about being a better father to our son then his dad was to him..but it doesn't help our situation because im also stressed we both just got laid off our jobs and this is our first child and we are also still trying to find a place to live b4 our son is born just soo much pressure right now...my pregnancy flew by so quickly
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in my case im having alot of stress. its my due date tom and still no sign the baby is coming. i will be medically induced. and i know this will be very painful. but the worst part is yesterday i just found out my husband is having an affair and he chose to be with that not so human before the baby comes out. now im really scared that he will take my baby and bring it to that *****.
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^^^ that's a good idea.
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Could it be that he's stressed about being a dad for the first time? Have you tried asking him why he's been that way?
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I'm trying to be stress free as well. My partner is so sweet and so loving but I'm so sensitive and I take offense to things for no reason really. Lol. I've been the one picking the fights and being argumentative... I'm aware of it and the stress I cause myself. I just sit or lay for at least 10 minutes, no TV, no phone and just breath. Helps me.  
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