Scared of going through labor by myself(venting)

[mom90]

Im use to my boyfriend making all my doctor appointments && hospital visits. He has been an excellent father who stayed by myside. He couldnt be their to see his first child born because when he was younger he went to jail. && now im afraid he want be able to see our daughter born I cry my eyes out every once in awhile because EVERYDAY where together he's all I know the only person who go to my appointments etc. I pray he come home because its going to break me if he miss out. This is my first child && im barely close to his mom. Its like the only reason I came around was cause of him like he held the.foundation of that && now that he's in jail Im lost also today I found out he has to be tested for anemia to see if were both carriers which can be passed down.to our daughter that causes oxygen problems,low iron && learning problems never knew it was serious but I really miss him && pray God make a way he comes home.I need advice or to hear some positive encouraging words to help me be strong no NEGATIVE vibes!

[wayfunmommy]

You can do it. I've spent the last 8 years of my marriage with my husband gone 30 weeks of every year. It isn't easy but I do it because I have to. My babies depend on me and my husband is worth the wait.
Take this time to grow in your independence.

[Jennyleigha]

I did it hun, our son was nearly two when he came home. military wives do it too. even if you are not close to his mom it may be a building experience for you and the support may be surprising. It easier to have someone with you.