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You need to have plans in place. Do think about adoption because it can be a wonderful thing for everyone involved, especially for the babies. Depending on how far along you are termination is also an option.
If you plan to keep them may sure you get your education because that's very important.
You're only 15 and legally not able to work so do you know how you will be able to buy things for not just one baby but two of them? Is the father in the picture? What about your parents? How do they feel about this and would they be willing to be there to help? It is not their responsibility to care for these babies, it's yours and the father.
If you have a social worked ask for all the help you can get as far as parenting classes and support groups for pregnant teen girls. Your school counselor may also be able to help you with this.
It all boils down to what is going to be right for these children and not what you want. I know that sounds harsh but we're talking about two little human beings. They are not pets you can give back if you get upset with them. Many older woman struggle greatly with having just one child. You're only 15 and will be having two babies.
We're here to listen and support you anyway we can. None of us can tell you what you should or should not do.
If you plan to keep them may sure you get your education because that's very important.
You're only 15 and legally not able to work so do you know how you will be able to buy things for not just one baby but two of them? Is the father in the picture? What about your parents? How do they feel about this and would they be willing to be there to help? It is not their responsibility to care for these babies, it's yours and the father.
If you have a social worked ask for all the help you can get as far as parenting classes and support groups for pregnant teen girls. Your school counselor may also be able to help you with this.
It all boils down to what is going to be right for these children and not what you want. I know that sounds harsh but we're talking about two little human beings. They are not pets you can give back if you get upset with them. Many older woman struggle greatly with having just one child. You're only 15 and will be having two babies.
We're here to listen and support you anyway we can. None of us can tell you what you should or should not do.
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I'm 15 and pregnant as well. I was pregnant with twins but miscarried the 2nd baby. If you would like talk message me
Number 1 I'm not ignorant I was just telling her that's not wat she wants to do I had a friend dat did dat n she lived with a lot of regret at least if she give dem up n she change her mind she can have open adoption.
Tell your parents.
Tell your parents.
Actually, one thing you don't wanna do is listen to what everyone else tells you you don't wanna do. Listen to your gut instincts and your heart. How ignorant...
One thing u don't wanna do is abort them babies r a blessing if u think giving them up is best for u den do it its ur choice :) good luck
Do what you think is best for your babies
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