Please understand

[Isaiahterrell]

I am 15 years old and 36 in a half weeks pregnant with my baby. Before I found out I was pregnant, me and my boyfriend broke up. I told him that I was pregnant a couple of days after that. It seemed like he cared, but then it didn't. He got a girlfriend after that. They were together for 3 months and then he broke up with her. He got another girlfriend and they were together for about 3 or 4 months. They broke up a couple of days ago. But I think that he is in love with her (the second girl). It's really hurting me because I really love him and he doesn't understand. I've did a lot for him all these 9 months. And he still hasn't showed me that he really cares. All we do it argue. I'm just ready for this to be over and I'm really tired. Should I just leave him alone, and stop texting him? And just talk to him when it's about the baby?

[Susinko]

I am so happy to hear that your parents are involved!  I am also glad that you're going to finish school!  That's the best thing you can do for you and your baby.

Of your baby's daddy doesn't want to be with you, than there's nothing you can do.  That's for the best.  It doesn't matter how much you love him if he would rather be with someone else.  It isn't fair for you or him.  Concentrate on that sweet baby and getting an education.  Afterwards you can find the man of your dreams who loves you like you deserve to be.

[Isaiahterrell]

I am still in school and I plan on finishing and going to college. I will try to get me a job asap when it's time for me to.

[Isaiahterrell]

Yes our parents are involved. I had a babyshower yesterday. He came And helped out

[Karitas310]

First of all Congrats!!
Second of all. Your ex bf is just a sperm donor! Living his teenage years. Not mature enough to be dad obviously! You shouldnt be worrying who he is dating or not dating etc. If he is not coming around for his baby, well there is nothing you can do because if he wanted to, he should have been involve with the pregnancy. But he is not. Correct??? So there forget him. Stop overthinking the situation when then answer is right in front you. Im sure you are smart & yes it hurts but move on.

Third of all You should focus in enjoying the last of your pregnancy. And start planning for whats to come after the baby. Did you finish school? Planning to work part time? Etc. Sorry not sorry. You are not a teenager no more. That all ended the moment you found out you are prego. Time to be a mature adult because that precious baby inside of you, is depending on you! So forget about ur sperm donor (ex bf) & any other guys for a while. That baby of yours should be your first priority now. Thats it! Best of luck!

[taradodd]

I was 17 when i had my first little boy and i promise you, when u hold your baby for the first time you will than realize what true love feels like and laugh at the time you thought you were so in love.. Nothing compares. I would stick with just talking about the baby. My sons dad met him once i decided to not let him be involved do to issues he has its better for my son. You'll know what to do when the time comes.

[RockRose]

Both of you are children.  Neither of you are even old enough to drive.

It's unlikely that his presence in your life,  and your baby's life,  will make any difference whatsoever because you are both children.  

Do you have adults you can count on to be there to help out?  Are  his parents involved? Are yours?

[lisajean86]

Its called a break up, because its broken. This is a fact and also a wonderful book that helped me move on from one of my toughest relationships. Its not easy being a teenage girl and I cant imagine the added stress of baby hormones that you must be dealing with. But im here to say, life goes on. You find someone new. Someone better and worth caring for because he cares about you. Just try to see your future and where you want to be, the woman you want to become and the life you want for this child. I can guarantee you... the picture looks really strange with this relationship-hopping-BOY in it. You are better off without him and you will do great things if you just focus on you and baby. And fyi, let him come to you for baby updates and info. Of course let him know about the birth, but dont expect a text response for ever little pic and milestone update. It just sets you up for more heartache. Good luck and check out that book!

[CGutierrez813]

My suggestion is you forget about him. You are so young and are going to have a baby to worry about. Know your worth and to me no woman deserves a boy like that. Focus on your future and your unborn baby. As hard as it may be just remember to keep your head up stay strong. I will keep you in my prayers.

[Cherry_July9]

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[Cherry_July9]

I think that's the best thing for you to do because you can't change a man. If he wants to be stubborn and treat you like that let him because when Its all said and done its go b u and you baby against the world. Don't stress yourself over him its not worth your health or the baby's health.