pregnant or hormonal imbalance??

[helen_paras]

hello everyone!! i just created account..and i am a teen..please please answer it as i am really scared and confused.. so i had 2 abortions before it been t months now..and on 31st may i had my normal periods lasted for 6 days and on 6th day i had unprotected sex i took a pill after that and thought everything is okay now.. but after 6 days i started bleeding for 6 days blood was brown and bright red i really dn't have any idea what was that...i was worried..but calm on the  other side as i dn't have any prego symptoms like nausea,vomiting,headaches etc etc but tommorow i squeezed my breast and milk came out of it... plz plz plz answer what is this any disease or em pregnANt bcz uptill now i dn't have any symptoms..!!
no PMS and no prego symptoms .. as my expected date of periods is 1st or 4th of each month but i dn't have it upill now and its 7th..
any idea or suggestions will be appreciated much!! thanks

[helen_paras]

thanks !!

[Kailalaa]

It can start at any time the colostrum, it carries woman to woman. And do I know a pregnancy without symptoms? Sure, lots of women don't develop many symptoms and can go months without noticing that they're pregnant.

If you were asking if I knew any other pregnancy symptoms to watch out for, then yes to that too. Nausea, vomiting, sore/tender breasts, frequent urination, bloating, increased appetite, sleepiness, headaches, cravings, increased sense of smell/sensitivity to certain smells, light cramping, heartburn, change in your taste buds (what foods you once enjoyed you might not anymore). I'm sure there's plenty more, those are just the most common

[helen_paras]

ahan.. do u know any pregnancy without any symptoms? like nausea,vomiting etc etc ??
and secondly in pregnancy the milk secretion starts as in starting days? i.e 2 3 weeks

[Kailalaa]

Yes, its called colostrum, its like a sugar water that babies drink the first couple days after birth before milk comes in. Lots of women leak it throughout their pregnancy that's totally normal so if you're experiencing that I would assume you're pregnant. Though I'm sure that's not always the case. I'm sorry I wish I could be of more help

[helen_paras]

i live in Pakistan and i am christian in our state its totally illegal and worse thing to get pregnant(if i am) before marriage i am having summer vacations and in home for like 2 months really dn't knw what to do..

but u tell me one thing i had 2 abortions 7 months has passed before this i nvr have milk but now its coming and i dn't have any PMS or prego symptoms u r a mom u might b have some idea .. milk coming can be sign of pregnancy?

[Kailalaa]

Thanks so much! & please don't commit suicide. Listen I know its hard and scary, I do, but there's plenty of things out there that could help you raise your baby. And there's a planned parenthood in every state that welcomes teenagers and will help you, pretty much free of charge and theyll never tell your parents. And most drs are confidential about it anyways, even if you're underage.

And your parents will probably be pretty mad at first, but it won't last long, and when baby comes (if you are pregnant) then I'm sure they'll love him too! Please don't kill yourself or think like that, I don't know how to help with that other than advise professional counseling. Confiding in someone, or anyone would be helpful. Good luck! You'll be okay

[helen_paras]

ur baby is really cute..
God bless her!!

[helen_paras]

thanks.. and yes i dn't mean that really was just giving my opinion..
yeah i am scared and dn't know what to do i cn't visit a doctor now .. can't have a test ..neither tell anyone... the only thing coming to my mind is suicide if i am pregnant bcz i dn't want to lose my baby now..along with this i don't want to disrespect my parents any more by informing them about this situation plus i can't afford it as i am in university dn't have any job..

[Kailalaa]

I'd take a test honestly. That's really the only say for sure to know. It sounds like you're really scared so please relax, just breathe. I mean if you're pregnant you're pregnant, no need to stress until you know for sure.

Take a test, take a couple (sometimes there's false negatives and positives) and if you get one positive go to the drs, they'll test you there and confirm. From there you can stress ( a LITTLE) and decide what you want to do.


(Also please don't comment on other girls things that they should get an abortion if they've already decided to keep the baby. They'll hear horrible enough things with out other teen, pregnant girls not supporting them. I know you didn't mean anything by it but its a very stressful time nd sometimes that can really upset a person).

Good luck! And take care of yourself, please, if you are pregnant. I know it can be scary but no doctor will judge you so make sure you go to them (: