HMMMM.....NO AF AGAIN!!!!

[motherofan18month]

well, some of u might know that i was supposed to have AF yesterday and guess what she didnt show but i am gonna try to hold off because i have an OBGYN appt. this thusday and maybe ill get some answers then.....i know this might sound gross PLEASE DONT READ IF YOU HAVE BELLIES::::: WARNING---CAUTION---WARNING WAY TMI !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  i know you get constipated during pregnancy but has anyone had a bowel movemet and wiped and have blood on the t-pape but not in the stool?????PLEASE ANSWER A.S.A.P SO I'LL KNOW WHETHER OR NOT TO GO TO DOCTOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[KM604]

yes call your doc or go to the ER!!!! When I was miscarrying, at first I wasn't sure if it was a bad period (since I hadn't had it for 2 months, but also took HPT's and they were all negative so i didnt even know i was pregnant)..so I called my mom and she said it is probably just a bad period since i havent had it in a while...then when i woke up i bled through my tampon which i never do..went to the ER and it turns out i was miscarrying....YOU know your body better then anyone else

[motherofan18month]

TMI.................OMG........YOU GIRLS ARE NOT GOING TO BELEIVE THIS BUT I STILL DIDN'T GET TO DOC BECAUSE RELATIVES SHOWED UP AND MY MY MOTHER ASKED ME TO WAIT, I SAID OKAY AS LONG AS I GET THERE BEFORE 4 IT'S FINE....3 ROLLED AROUND AND SHE SAID SHE HAD SOME THINGS TO DO FIRST AND SHE WOULD TRY TO HURRY...I KNEW THEN SHE WASN'T GOING TO TAKE ME, SO I CALLED MY SIL AND SHE SAID SHE WAS BUSY, SO I SAID OKAY, CALLED DOCS OFFICE AND TOLD THEM I WOULD HAVE TO CALL THEM BACK TO RESHEDULE AN APPT. THE NURSE ASKED ME IF EVERYTHING WAS OKAY AND I EXPLAINED MY SITUATION...SHE SAID TO WAIT A FEW DAYS TO SEE IF AF WAS GONNA SHOW AND IF IT HADN'T SHOWN BY MONDAY THEN TO COME STRAIGHT IN NO NEED FOR AN APPT. OOOOOOPS DIDN'T NOTICE I WAS TYPING IN CAPS!   at 5 am i woke up having to pee really really bad, so i ran to the bathroom and as i started to pee a big clot fell out. it was lil bigger than the size of a quarter and then the pain hit all at once.....and another clot came out and i finally started bleeding.....i called my mom and she said i would be fine that it was nothing so idk....i have never passed a clot bigger than a dime and i have only used 1 pad  and a panty liner since 5 am....should i call my doc???????

[natashalo8]

this is going to sound weird and possibly not make any sense, but there are antibodies in our body that can trigger a positive urine test but will not show up i a blood test. google it...i think it's something like anti-mouse antibodies or heterobodies or something like that. i was looking into that when i was getting positive urine tests but negative blood tests. also, sometimes cysts can cause a urine preg. test to be positive. you can find out if you have those antibodies by asking your doc to test you for them. good luck!!!!

[motherofan18month]

i was unable to go to doc yesterday...DH came home and got my car cuase is truck is acting up, and he has it again this am so my mom is taking me to my (original) appt. i checked my past periods (marked on calendar) and they were all between 27-29 days except for april and may....32 in april and here 34 in may! i was only 2 days late in march which was okay i usually give myself 1-2 days anyways, but my main concern is the positive home tests.......i have only had 1 blood test and that was in march and it was negative...so idk what is going on...it is really starting to frustrate me even more now...im not stressed over it but i would love,love,love to know what is going on!

[natashalo8]

i hope the doc can give you some answers. and if your AF is late every month do you think that ur cycle has possibly lengthened? after my m/c my cycles went from 28 to 34. just a thought. look back and see if there are any patterns as to how many days you were late each month. maybe that will help you as well. as far as those diagnostic tools go, please don't rely solely upon them. there are many things that could cause your symptoms and we always tend to think the worse...i think everyone does. i know it's easier said then done but just try to relax until you see your doc tomorrow. i'm sure he'll have a much better insight as to what is going on. good luck sweetheart!!!

[Mishy_88]

that has happened to me and u probably wiped too hard or got a bit of a tear wen it was coming out and wud show wen u wipe

[motherofan18month]

i went to another symptom checker through wrong diagnosis and there were only 3 causes of my symptoms....Hydatiform mole, ectopic pregnancy, and miscarriage....i dont know whats going on i thinking about calling doc first thing in the am to see if i can come in earlier.....my DH just got paid so i will have the money for the visit, the pap, and the blood work so im hoping they can give me some insight on my problem.....i know its an every month thing, but it seems like everytime i forget about ttc'ing i end up being late for AF and a new symptoms arrises....uuuggghhh i wish i could do all the testing at home my self so i would be able to give the doc my results but unfortuantly i dont think they make tests like that so i have been tracking my symptoms since may 9th so i can give the chart to my doc so as to not leave anything out(if he will read it)......i have probably been a pain in the *** since jan. over all my troubles but i might have some answers within the next day or so and i can put all of this behind me and try ttc'ing with GOD & LUCK on my side! thanks for being patient with me girls!!!!! your advice, and info have helped me greatly!!

[natashalo8]

girl you got something going on every month! i feel for ya though, b/c tailbone pain is one of the worse pains i have ever experienced. i bruised mine really bad one time when i was younger and i really thought i would die from the pain. maybe you should go to the doc and at least let them look at it. it could be bruised or broken, or just sore from something.

[motherofan18month]

well, wasn't able to go to doc as planned cause DH's truck started acting up on us and haven't had any bleeding since 1 o'clock this evening.....but i have had some of the worst pain in my tail bone i have ever had in my life..i asked DH if i could take his hammer to his tail bone to show him eactly what it felt like cause he kept asking me how it felt....he laughed and asked me if i was out of my mind......i am so uncomfortable i tried to take a nap with DS at around 3:30 and couldn't get comfortable for the pain and not to meantion pressure (what is weird is this is the way i felt right before i got my epidural with lighter pains) there is no itching or burning just pain in my tail bone so i dont think its hemmorroids!

[natemomma27]

i go through that all the time. i went to the er once and they did an u/s just to tell me that my bowels were backed up...DUH! they had my get an over the counter stool softer and preparation H if need be, but that was it

[motherofan18month]

no....no BFP yet, tryin to wait to see if im gonna start by the 22nd (doc appt.) i went to WEBMD....to track my symptoms and again ectopic pregnancy, miscarriage, and pregnancy popped up on the top 3 in that order....the next 2 were kidney failure and menstral cramps in that order!! i have no idea what to think, im gonna call the doc as soon as DH gets here( he just left work early)

[Jame0223]

I don't think she has gotten a bfp and I don't think I am pregnant! lol I may be. I need to test when i am due for AF..if I don't get it anyways. AHH another headache! :(

[irrelevance]

how far along are you?

[Jame0223]

I actually get that a lot. I must have weak skin if you know what I mean. I tear pretty easy and I get a bit of blood all the time. Its normal don't worry lol. I was acutally just having that problem late last week.

[motherofan18month]

since i posted, i have been experiencing really bad pains kinda like my hips are spreading apart.......what could that be!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[motherofan18month]

UUUGGGHHH!! i hope thats not the case, thanks for the info though!

[irrelevance]

hehe, I'm sorry. I laughed at the "don't read this if you have bellies!" Haha.. I'm lacking sleep and feeling a bit 'off' myself.. That made me laugh out loud. lol
Anyways, yeah it could be hemroids or just a broken blood vesel or even just torn skin. It could be anything.. But if it was only a small, small amount and it goes away then I wouldn't worry. If it gets worse or is accompanied by a lot of pain or itching, it's probably a hemroid and you should see your Dr. about it.

[mamaofonetrying42]

Yes, you can get hemmoroids with out being pregnant. My hubby has them, you can get them from Straining....Once you have them they dont go away.....

[motherofan18month]

OH AND IM A DAY OFF I THOUGHT TODAY WAS THE 19TH!!!!!!! SO IM 3 DAYS LATE TODAY!!! CANT CONCENTRATE AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!

[motherofan18month]

MEANT TO SAYDONT READ IF U HAVE " WEAK BELLIES".........CAN U GET HEMMOROIDS WITHOUT PREGNANCY AND HOW DOES THAT HAPPEN?????

[mamaofonetrying42]

I wouldnt worrie, You prob. have a hemroid(sp)........Just tell you dr. about it......