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[sweetkisses12]

Hi I have a two year old already. I am worried about having another vaginal birth
.. some people say that the more vaginal birth someone has the looser the vagina walls get
..I'm concerned BC the first child I didn't c much of a difference either my husband..but for the second time will it expand ..help. I need to know and if so how can it improve...

[beautifulmum]

lol me neither you body is a wonderfull thing and it is meant to heal itself

[Anya1984]

I had two kids vaginally and  nor myself or my hubby see any difference!

[beautifulmum]

no problem hope it helps

[sweetkisses12]

Thanks everyone for the comments..

[beautifulmum]

ya well it is possible that they go too far but my mom explained it sucked really bad cause intercourse was very painful not fun

[sorenr]

Oh my! What a shame for her, thats awful! I'll be showing my other half that comment, maybe that'll change his mind!

[beautifulmum]

LOL that is funny sorenr, my mom had to have stitches after me and the doctor actually stitched it up too much her and my dad couldnt have sex so she had to be re cut...lol doesnt that suck

[Toni100388]

:)

[sorenr]

I had 2 vaginal deliveries, 1 with a third degree tear and my bf has no complaints! Hopefully I'll be good as new after this one too...although my lovely man is threatening if I need stitches to ask them to put in an extra couple! Cheeky git! Just as well I know he's joking!

[beautifulmum]

well i can tell you as long as you stay in shape you will be fine i have 2 daughters and seperated from there dad and met a wonderful man when my youngest was 4.5 mths old and i was terrified that after 2 kids i would be loose for him and he said i was very tight after just having her. i also just had a 3 but he was still born 20 weeks and we are ttc again and my boyfriend said within a week all was good. when you go to the bathroom or are sitting doing nothing do the kegal muscle excersize same muscle you stop peeing with. i taught myself how to do this while peeing i would let it out then make it stop at least 3 times in one pee. now while i am at work i can do it just sitting here and it works strengthen it all do it while pregnant too and it will make delivery easier

[khawkins]

I did Keigle's after my second vaginal birth, and my hubby told me that I needed to quit doing it..... Made it tighter than it was before I guess!! lol.  

[MyBeautifulDisaster]

Keigle exercises {probably misspelled that) but its a simple way to tighten up after vaginal birth. and....you can do them anywhere!