ADVICE, SAD, LONLEY , DEPRESSED ;(

[kiccolini]

I really need ADVICE please.
So im 20 years old and im 10 Weeks and 4 days, ive been with been with my bf/bd for 3 in half years. The only problem is he lives in Chicago and I live in Utah. We have always visited each other back and forth and he's coming this Friday to see me and come to my doc appointment march 5th and everytime I talk about the baby he says he dosent wanna talk about it and he told me at first to get an abortion and he bought me an engament ring n when he comes here he is gonna propose but tonight he told me he wont marry me if I keep the baby and he dosent want it. Im so sad and upset like idk what to do, I just keep telling him will talk about it when I see u . I dont want to get an abortion I told him but hes emotionally and mentally tearing me apart  and I love him more than anything and idk what to do I was hoping when he comes my appointment and sees the ultra sound he'll come around but I dont think thats gonna happen ;( idk wat to do, help any advice!

[Rachel_croft]

I would dump his ***, but don't expect much out of him cuz he sounds like a deadbeat.

[Rachel_croft]

I was in a long distance relationship and my ex had a whole neither life he was hiding. I honestly think he is probably with another girl in Chicago and he will be forced to come clean if you keep his baby. That does not make sense that he is only proposing if you have an abortion. If anything it would be the other way around.

[kiccolini]

Thanks love :-)

[hansen20]

im so happy for you hun!! i just know you will be a great mommy=), good luck and i hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy=).

[kiccolini]

Thank you so much everyone for the advice, yoi guys are All right as my mom said the same thing. The baby is a blessing from God and my mom went thru the same thing with my brothers dad. But I will love this baby with or,without  him. I really hope he'll come to his senses and be therefor me. But if not ill still have my baby aways!

[hansen20]

just remember because this is true too. a man is there sometimes but your kids are there forever and ever. what that means is your kids will always love you no matter what and a man can come and go out of your life, but if he truly loves you he will stick beside you thru thick and thin no matter what. thats what my mom told me and i do agree with it because no matter if i have a guy or not my kids will always be there unlike a man=).