do i need him or not?

[newmommy2015jd]

My baby's father had been talking with another girl and lied to me about it. I've been feeling really stressed out about it and worried the stress might affect the baby somehow. Don't know what to do leave him or work things out? What would you do?

[mother_nugget1411]

Going through almost the same thing I know everybody says to leave him but I know how hard it is to leave.. just take some time to think about it and cry it out.nobody in here can really tell you what to do because they don't really know him or you or anything about your relationship

[veronique5569]

I would totaly be mad too if he lied about it but she never said anything about him cheating? It should be okay for him to talk to girls and okay for you to talk to boys (obviously as friends only) do you know things that were said to each other? Maybe he knew you would get mad if he talks to girls so thats why he lied (which i agree yes i would be mad he lied if it was my bf) but i dont think if you have any thoughts that he would cheat or if he was just talking as friends that you should leave your baby daddy.... i would work it out first if he was just afraid you would be pissed...... im not againts you or anything because as i already said i would be mad too that he lied but i would work it out unless i thougut their were signes of cheating.... hope you guys figure it out!!

[Mommyof_TwoXOXO]

Its gonna hurt and be so hard but by experience you need to leave him he's worth nothing if he cheats on his pregnant girl

[roflbecca]

Nah. I'd be done. Anyone willing to do that while their s/o is pregnant ain't **** in my book. It should tell you the kind of person he is. I would just end it. Fast like a bandaid and move on.

[brittgris89]

I would try to just focus on myself and my baby. Do you feel  like hes learned his lesson? Sometimes its better to just walk away for a while to sort your feelings . Im sorry this happened to you