MISCARRAIGE AT 20WKS

[sawyer_latasha]

I had a miscarriage at 20wks. the doc's said there was nothing that i could do to prevent it. I can still feel my child kick even though he is no longer there. I won't be on here 4 awhile.

I also want 2 thank everybody who helped me out with the questions I had.

[LosingMyMindInGA]

OH NO!! I am so sorry you are having to go through this.  I do understand how you feel though.  I have suffered two first trimester miscarriages and our first son was stillborn at 37 wks 5 days (cord accident)  Please take some time to heal physically and mentally.  Checking into Grief counseling or finding a pregnancy loss support group could do wonders to help you.  I don't know how you are but for me the more I talked about what happened and our son the easier it became.  There are tons of websites dedicated to the loss of a child.  

We also have a miscarriage forum here where you can share your loss and grief with other women who understand.  I'm posting a link below.  I hope you have a support network of family and friends to get you through this time.  If you need to talk or just want to vent you can PM me anytime.  Again I am very sorry you are having to go through this.  Losing a child is the worst pain a mother can feel.  With time it does get easier.  I find little things help me to get by...like lighting a special candle on his birthday every year.  This coming august he would have been 9 years old.


http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Miscarriages/show/283

[Sasha80]

Sorry for your loss.

[sawyer_latasha]

yeah it really hurts. my family said that God might have seen somthing worse happen 2 him in the future and decided 2 take him now.....if that is true.....I just wish he took him sooner....before he could feel anything....cuz it still feels like he's still in the womb kicking.

He died 2-2-10....my mom's birthday.

[Ashelen]

I'm so sorry for your loss....I can only imagine what you're going through :( my prayers are with you.