I know.
My future just totally SMACKED me in the face this afternoon.
My mom called me and she was like, "Kaila! You need to get your sh*t packed now! You're coming up here next weekend! They won't let me get the appartment!"
LOL
And I'm like, "OMG OKAY!"
And I've been busy packing like ALL day.
I'm looking at all our sh*t and I'm like, "Omg we have too much sh*t!"
So we gatta figure out what stays and what goes.
We're gunna leave stuff we don't really have nothing to do with here for now.
And when we come to visit next year, we'll get the rest of our sh*t.
It's like, "I dunno where to start!"
I'm trying to get Josh to go through his cloths and tell me what he wears and what he doesn't anymore so we don't waste room in our suit cases n boxes n ****.
I found shirts I've never seen this kid wear, I'm like, "Josh. What- I've never seen you wear this shirt before. Can I just put it away and we can get it another time?"
And he's all like, "I wear it sometimes!"
It's like well wtf?!
Ugh.
Men.
I swear to god that they're worse than women sometimes. lolol
We got like 4 boxes we gatta fedex.
We're taking a train there.
THANK GOD.
My mother found like 3 er 4 apts she wants me to take a look at.
I think one or two are in Springfield, and I think one's in Agawam.
Then there's one in West Springfield.
Depending on which one's are the cheapest, I'm prolly gunna take the best one in springfield cuz everything is there around in springfield.
Jobs GALORE. lol.
I'm very nervous.
I wa p*ssed cuz we had 2 weeks till we hadda be up there, and nothing was coming to a head.
And then this happens today and it's like, "Well F*CK!"
y'know?
lolol.
Well the best of luck to yah chicka.
I'm not gunna be on that much anymore after this week.
=/
What can I say - Just hang in there.
*fingers crossed*
Tested at 6pm tonight - 5 hours ago. BFN
Yeah...that stress may be making your cycle all twacked. I would just wait a lil longer, whens the last time you tested?
First period after M/C started on 11/3 and so I am on CD38 if I can count.
My OPK was positive at 10am on CD17 so if egg arrived 24-36 hours after that my egg should have been there by 4pm on CD18. Although 24-36 hours could have started anywhere in between 10am on CD16 when OPK said negative and 10am on CD18 when it was positive. We BD'd at 11pm on CD17 and 2pm CD18, couldn't after that because we had a house full and would have been obvious LOL I should have caught the egg though so I'm satisfied I gave it my bost shot. Also had *** in air for an hour after each session :)
Since I started TTC my cycles have been 33, 29, 32 days except for the cycle I got pregnant.
Have had major stress since CD32 though so could be a reasn I'm late.
I'm monsterously bloated! So today I'm 6 months lol I wouldn't care if there were an actual baby in there :(
well I have flow again.. and omg is it watery!!! Ugh, I hate that kind.
I know that within 2 months of my mc I gained 20 pounds. I naturally hold in my tummy,but when I relax it or push it out I seriously look like I'm ..oh i don't know...5 months pregnant? I hate it! This is the only month that I haven't thought I'm pregnant again because I had ALL the signs a week and a half before AF lol. Well thats the only thing I can think of as a response to your "funny shaped tummy" Your hormones may have made you put on weight...that's my excuse! lol
I couldn't tell you if you are pregnant...since you got a bfn. Where are you in your cycle now?
I should start paying a LOT more attention from now on.
yeah, I thought it was a faint positive... af was a week late and I started spotting.. so I assumed it's af.
I never paid any attention to what AF looks like, I start getting anything brown, red, pink and I put in a tampon. If I use a mini then I have to change it alot but if I use a regular only one side ever gets soiled. My last AF on 11/3 was 33 days after my M/C (the day I started bleeding for M/C) and it only lasted three days. It was the lighest flow I've ever had from what I can remember. The last day I BD'd in that cycle was on 27/3.
I'm assuming I'm not preggers from that cycle because no BFP although my tummy is a funny shape - I look like I am 'showing' if I am sitting down and although there is clearly some fat there it feels hard if you poke you're finger into it. Also I have gained 2kg in the last four weeks but have not been eating excessively. Don't usually get bloated for four weeks LOL
However my OPK did indicate I ovulated on CD18 of this current cycle but then it did show a positive result on one of the 2ww days I used it (just out of curiosity) and that 'pee on a stick' site said OPK sometimes showed up positive if you were pregnant but then I did a proper pregnancy test and that said negative....
Bizarre........anyone have a comment for me :)
I thought you took a test with a faint positive. Also about the whole tampon thing that happened to me with my first pregnancy. Very little blood and brown. It happened to be implantation. Thd blood itself was only about a day long if that. Test again you may be prego.
Ohh yeah BAD COMBO!!! LOL
I'm starving... I'm not hungry!! haha.
With the pee, mine wasn't brown.. it was pink..
So I totally know!! LOL
I hate AF too! I just started spotting yesterday. Started early afternoon. I put a tampon in, and at like 8 or so in the evening I took it out and there was barely anything on it. So I went a while without anything, no mess. So I just put on a thin panty liner for bed. Woke up with nothing. Then I started getting leg pains and cramps. Now I'm bleeding, but its really brown and just barely burgondy maybe. TMI, but you know how when you pee on your period, blood drips with the last few drops right? Even that's brown! So I guess today should be the first day. Cramps need to go away! I took two advil an hour ago...Nothing, so I'm tempted to take another! lol Plus I'm tired and kind of hungry...and at work. BAD COMBO. I need a nap. lol
I hate AF and all it's cycles!!
I don't like being CONFUSED! LOL
Your welcome hun,,,definately get it,ive learnt so much....
Man I should get that book... everywhere I look people are quoting it and raving about it! LOL! Thanks for the info, tarajanes! It's very interesting!!!
Ooh, that is interesting. Glad I asked that one! Well this morning when I took the tampon out and only had the 2-3 brown spots, made me keep one out while I slept.
So from 4:00ish till 11:00am there was no blood.. But I just went to the bathroom and when I wiped it was pink. But a fair amount. So I'm lucky I didn't cause a mess in the bed with my fiance. LOL.
Hiya i was lead to believe this also,but since reading taking charge of your fertility,fab book,it states that spotting day before full flow is considered part of luteal phase.
How do you determine the first day of your cycle?
CD1 is the first day you see a red flow, not just intermittent spotting. There is no universal rule for the cutoff time for that date. Some RE's use midnight, others use 5 p.m., but most often CD1 is considered the first day of full flow that begins before mid-afternoon. Again, spotting does not count unless it is a continuous (not intermittent) spotting. Continuous spotting does count as CD1. The fact that the rules of thumb for calculating CD1 are so arbitrary suggests that you've got a little bit of leeway for variation.
tarajanes, that's interesting... could you elaborate and give more information on that? My understanding was that the first day of spotting was the beginning of your next cycle/peiod since flow can start off spotting, get heavier, then taper off with more spotting???
Spotting before main flow is considered part of your last cycle.so i would say you start date is 15th...
Would the 14th be considered a part of af? even if it was just spotting?
Well, I thought I was going to bed... but, uhh no.
(tmi)--> I just went to the bathroom because I remembered I put a tampon in around 9ish lastnight... And usually if I'm still awake I try to change it every 2-4 hours. Well it's 4:52am...it's been in there almost 8 hours. eep! Anyways, I took it out, and I'm irritated now. Did my bleeding just stop? I took it out and there was only 2-3 (tiny) brown spots on it.. Talk about UGH? Now I don't know if I should put one in or not...
let's see...
14th-spotted off and on. 15th-a semi heavy flow started. 16th-same as 15th.....
17th(4:52am)-2-3(tiny) brown spots. No clots at all with either days.
What the hell?
=] thanks.
-as for you other ladies.. ANSWER ME! LOL
I'll be back on later today so don't disappoint me! hehe
(well it'll only be a lil break from packing, but I'll be here!) XD