Pregnancy or Abortion?

[brownhair30]

I am 8 weeks pregnant, and I really do not want to have  this baby. But I am not 100% sure if I want to have an abortion. I do not want to put up for an adoption.  I already have 2 small children by 2 different dads. I just feel so bad that I made this mistake once again. I will be a single mother for the 3rd time.  Any advice. Should I have this baby or not?

[mrssandefur]

Oh thank you for informing me my babies will be screwed up :) I had no idea :)

[shi923]

Jujibby14 you should read what the moderators wrote pertaining to people like you. If you can't speak without judgment then don't speak at all skip this post. As your judgememt was not healthy or needed.

[Destani214]

You know every last one of you judging her need to look at your life and the mistakes YOU have made dont say well at least I didnt have an abortion..all wrong is wrong! We all make mistakes! I cant believe some of you have the nerve to judge her and if people knew your secrets you would be ashamed so dont throw stones at her!
She already said adoption is not an option so leave it alone!
Sweetie just do whats best for you, I have four children pregnant with number five. my oldest was a prev situation and the rest are from my husband that being said I had an abortion after my first child and yes I still think about it but believe me I'm ok. I thought about it again after my first with my husband but couldnt do it again. So if you do make it a one time thing and make sure it doesnt happen again because I dont think you could do it again just because your questioning it now. You can keep this baby if you want...you can do it and don't worry about others. It's all up to you! Message me anytime!

[jujibby14]

U should keep da baby..why is it dat da baby should suffer for ur mistake..dats not fair ..being blessed with a bby is da best thing in da world cuz in da end of it all ur kids are always there for u..u may struggle now but when dey get old dey will realize what u did for them and appreciate it..ur da one who ****** up by sleeping with someone who u knew didn't care enough bout u..and if u don't want the baby give it up for adoption there are plenty women who don't have the gift we got from god..ur killing someone dey would die.to have dats not fair let them show ur bby love..

[brownhair30]

I agree with "Mommy to be".  None of my children are screwed up. Also, I know many children who are born and raised in 2 family unit, nice home, and turn out to be drug addicts. Just look at Dr. Phil's show. That is one prime example that single family homes do not necessary mean that a child will be screwed up.  In saying that, I off course prefer my children to be in a 2-parent home, with a loving mother (me) and father. I know my choices made this, and now all i can do is make better choices for now on.  Thanks to all of you who responded with a sincere non-judgemental heart!  

[edhendry]

I can honestly say from experience that you are safer to have the baby given to an adopted family. An abortion will leave you scarred and its a very huge emotional ride. You will feel better knowing your child is taken care of instead of going through with an abortion. Please take time to think and do what your heart tells you not what others want.
Best of luck to you sweetie.