From BFN to BFP

[AT2310]

Hi all,


My first question to this forum , I am 11 DPO and have got 4 BFN till date .....not sure if I am actually pg or not.I am really anxious to find out.I have cramping since last 3/4 days, heartbrun. metal mouth on 9 DPO , dizziness late afternoon till early evenings almost everyday.Should I go for a blood test right now or its too early? Can't wait to confirm.Expected AF 4 days away

[AT2310]

I hope things become netter for you and you recover from your stress as soon as possible

Take care

[RangersWife]

I have alot of stress right now...which kinda makes me nervous after reading your comments.  I'm trying to chill, but its hard.  I will praying for everyone on this issue.  I have alot going on...alot of it i'm embarassed about or not proud of.  I'm 28...I have been though alot...I have been through rape, have gastroparesis, have delt with kidney cancer and cervical cancer..my last relationship before my now husband was an abusive one and he guy gave me hpv, which will never go away.  A year ago (before I met and married) I was in an abusive relationship, was sick sick with cancer, and just found i had hvp.  I was terribly upset and tried to comitt suicide..i tried to drive to a hospital after, I ended up getting a dui other and never made it to the hospital, but to jail which i don't even remember to this day, but I lived.  I plead guilty to dui other, cause I did drive while under the influnce, but it was a suicide mission gone wrong..anyway i was ordered to pay a 3,000.00 fine on a first offense dui other.  I was making payments on it 200.00 a mnth but fell behind last mnth because we had to move and it came down to us eating or paying the fine that mnth...I recently learned I have a warrent for my arrest now.  I called to explain, but they where having none of it.  Now they want the rest of the money in full or me, they will not accept payments...and I still owe 1,367.00.  I don't have that kind of money...I keep sending in payments, but I have to hide...its very stressful.  I made a mistake in trying to kill myself, I made a mistake in driving that night...I get that, but I am trying and to get things together and straighten out my life.  I had to move from ms to ct the past mnth...money is tight i worry about that.  I worry about the hpv and the baby. I hurt.  I worry about my health with the cervical cancer...I had my left kidney taken out.  My husbands exwife is trying to cause problem with child support and custody with their 10 year old daughter..she isn't happy to hear i'm expecting...I'm bipolar and not on meds cause I don't want them to hurt the baby...i'm just super stress :(  The hpv bothers me....I didn't get it from my husband, but he knows I have it, I have been honest...I'm starting to have problems with it though..that makes me sad too..i feel gross and its embarassing and painful

[AT2310]

Many thanks...

Even I had a miscarraige last time becuase of stress at work....I was so stressed last October.I am trying to stay relaxed but I ahve to travel for entire next month...and with ;long working hours...that is concerning me a bit.

[AT2310]

Thank you...

your mood status says depressed, would you like to share the reason

[Minigingerbread]

You're definitely positive, as long as it is more than 5. Congrats on the good news!
Just relax and be happy about the pregnancy. Stress costed me my last pregnancy :( Your baby needs you to stay upbeat! You guys are gonna be fine! Congrats again!

[RangersWife]

I hope you both had good results...praying and I hope you guys post on the results :)

[AT2310]

Thank you for your response it helps :-) I am due today and I have not got it so I think it should be positive....had a miscarriage last time so am really really scared this time...tracking it really closely....and I need to travel for work entire month next month with crazy working hours...cannot cancel my plans....really stressed about that...

[jschoch8]

you are definately pregnant at 38.6. some tests dont even read until 50 or so. im due tomorrow too. i finally got a really dark line today. i used to always use first response and didnt get a positive until 12 or 13 dpo. i got these really cheap tests on amazon that came with 40 ovulation strips and 10 preg tests ( for only $10!) and it showed up earlier than all the expensive tests.  GOOD luck!

[AT2310]

Thank you :-) I got my blood HCG test done and my HCG is 38.6 at 13 DPO , not sure if its good or bad though but guess I am pregnant.....AF due tomorrow.....so lets see. Doc said very likely but missing periods is more like a confirmation acc to him.

[jschoch8]

that was supposed to be a smiley :)

[jschoch8]

i am 11 dpo too and i got a bfp at 8 dpo. but i want to let you know that has never happened for me this early. 12 or 13 dpo is more like it. wait a couple of days - good luck :(

[AT2310]

Hey

Thank you....congrats for the baby news :-) I guess I will have to wait but waiting like you said is so difficult :-(

[RangersWife]

I would try to wait the 4 days before testing or going for a test...I know its hard to wait, but you will get a clearer answer then...the possibility is lesser for a positive before then and you don't want to take a test, risk a possible false negative, then be bummed out...thats just my opinion..i totally understand though cause i've been in your shoes and i just made that mistake, but the good news is I now have a confirmed pregnancy so I wish you the best of luck dear. :)