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conception confusion

Just wondering if anyone else is due the 7th feb and can help me, I need to find out what date I concieved on as it is very important, my last period which was april the 21st a day after I had sex with one guy not sure if it was a proper period tho and don't know how long my cycles are as my periods was irregular, then I had sex with another guy round about 7th-13th may, who is more likley to be the farther if my ultrasound at 11weeks gave me the due date of feb 7th
Hope someone can explain to me how this works worrried out of my mind,
Thanks
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I went thru a similar scenario when I found out I was pregnant. I spent a lot time researching US accuracies, believe me! From what I know, early US are the most accurate. You can depend on the results of your 11 wk US. So if your due date is Feb 7th, that means you conceived on the 17th of May. Even if that date is off by a few days, I'd say you definitely got pregnant by the second guy. Because if it was the first guy, you would be about a month further into your pregnancy and there's no way the US would be off by that much.  
And remember that the sperm can live in your body for up to three days I think...so if you had sex on the 13th, you could still have conceived three days later. That also makes it most likely to be a girl... cause the male sperm are faster but die off in a day or two and the female sperm are slower but live up to 3 days. Thats what I read anyways. I hope this helps! Good luck and congratulations!!!
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Agree with rika reek
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I dnt understand y ppl are worried abt how many times she is asking the question......you dont have to read none of her posts jus stroll pass anything she post. I dont thnk this app or site is for people to catch attitudes or try to hurt people feelings.....
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2020005 tn?1628125976
She got her answer, move.on.
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What's that ment to mean like
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3178444 tn?1348441829
This post has been like nailing jello to the wall
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I actually doubt it could be the first guys baby cause I would be a lot furture along in pregnancy, in every different way I look at it, it point to the second guy
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@shortie_93.....yes its annoyin when she has posted same story in different ways more than 10 times......if shes that worried, get a dna....even tho we all said its the second guy's baby,there is also a chance that it could me the first guy....but we dnt kn, every answer is based on opinion... Im sure in the next few days, this same story will surface in a different way.....
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thanks for your support shortie_93 means alot, how did things turn out for your friend in the end??
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What,is the matter with you missy123421 ??? lojo268 is just trying to get some help i know how she feels a friend of mine went thru the same situation and to me your comment is disrespectful.... what if you were in her place would you like it if someone told you to wear protection next time??? And how is she annoying people thats just a stupid thing to say nobodies story is,annoying here!!!
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yer i think i know that now dont i, and yerno wa if you dont like it dont comment, your just being a little busy body getting involved, got nothin nice to say dont say anythin atall
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Am sure u got everyones answer from this forum, u should try another forum. Stop the repost....next time ur messing around wear protection, not coming to this forum to annoy ppl wit ur story.
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thanks nicole  and when i said 'if you actually take a look my question is different to the one i posted yesterday today i was asking if anyone was due round the same time as me to help me' that wasnt aimed at you i didnt see that you comment untill now, i was just trying to get different people opinions as i am really worried but thanks for your help and i didnt know medhelp had rules
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889551 tn?1416184483
You may have worded it differently, but the essential question is still when did I conceive/who is the baby's father.

Anyways, like I said, I'm due January 17th and conceived around April 25th. So, if the first guy was the father, you would be due around the same time. A due date of February means the other guy is the father. First trimester ultrasounds are generally spot on and very accurate. They can be off up to a week or two as pregnancy progresses, but not by three or more.
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if you actually take a look my question is different to the one i posted yesterday today i was asking if anyone was due round the same time as me to help me
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889551 tn?1416184483
I conceived in April and I'm 29 weeks, due in  January. There's really no way for your dates to be off by three or more weeks. You conceived in may. But you should still opt for a dna test.

Also, acline93 is right. It is against Medhelp's terms of service to post the same question multiple times.
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"Bump" up your question instead of reposting it. Reposting is againt MedHelp's rules, so I'm just saying if someone gets really annoyed, like they do with most people who constantly repost, they simply hit "report" and it reports your posts to the MedHelp staff.
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right no being funny or nothin but what has it actually got to do with you, i was trying to get as many people point of veiws as i could as this is ruiening my life, and yes i know its my fault but why are you so botherd what i do or post, you have probley never even been in this situation and wouldnt know what its like, i wouldnt wish it on anyone not even my worst enermy
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Please quit multi-posting the same exact question. Many people have answered your question many times, and you keep posting again and again. These people are here to give advice, but if you don't believe them and continue to post several times then I suggest that you get a DNA test done.
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thanks for all your help guys i feel a lot better now, just hope my ultrasound is right and your right the baby is a girl, so if it was the first guys i would be alot further into my pregnacy woulnt i, sorry to go on but this just really mean alot at the minute cause guy number two is my boyfriend and has been for 3 years but we split up round the april time, and he is the most loving person ever and would  make a fabulous dad, and guy number one is just a complete waste of space hasent got a job, doesent care about anyone but himself and would make a terrible dad.
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thanks for all your help guys i feel a lot better now, just hope my ultrasound is right and your right the baby is a girl, so if it was the first guys i would be alot further into my pregnacy woulnt i, sorry to go on but this just really mean alot at the minute cause guy number two is my boyfriend and has been for 3 years but we split up round the april time, and he is the most loving person ever and would  make a fabulous dad, and guy number one is just a complete waste of space hasent got a job, doesent care about anyone but himself and would make a terrible dad
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I'm due 5th of feb and mine is from the 15th may hope this helps x x
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This post again ...ask your doctor,get a dna test...none of us live in your uterus an would know for sure.
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most likely the second guy
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