an std

[firstbabyhappy]

I got an std from one my exs which never told he did. Now I been with my husband for almost 3 years and finally got pregnant. I'm 17w2d, I'm worried. Will I have a c-section or normal?

[kerriekab]

If you had herpes for 4 years before you got pregnant then the baby will have natural immunity from you so the chances of the baby catching it are very low.  If you have an outbreak at the time of birth the dr's might suggest a c-section but they might also just give the baby a course of anti-virals when they are born to prevent contamination. Make sure you tell your midwife about this so that they can monitor you carefully and put it in your notes so that any other midwife/caregiver knows about the situation and can act appropriately. Don't let it stress you out. they will know what is best for the baby and chances are you will be able to have a normal birth.

[firstbabyhappy]

Thanks a lot. I know I have a really good men and baby on the way which us of happiness. I really do hope so. Thanks you guys a lot. That day I will be clear and have my baby normal but i got to stay positive.

[alexiah]

My slow butt just got it i think i would of did the same lol

[babybonita]

I know there are different stages so hopefully @ birth everythings clear. Either way you & baby will be okay.

[mamaof4410]

I think she means she would've done something back to them:-)  for Parkersmommy,
I hope all goes well for you. And you have a really good man to look passed this and have a family. Best of luck to you and your growing family.

[alexiah]

Parkermommy what u mean u b sitting in prison

[firstbabyhappy]

But the thing is I have so much outbreaks. I just hope that day none come out at all.

[kiccolini]

Baby I mean

[kiccolini]

It'll be ok ..mine gave me chlamiydia ...but I know someone who got herpes ..as long as u don't have a out break around the time the banter born u should be fine hun

[firstbabyhappy]

I will nd thanks I just hope i have it normal. I want to have my baby all normal if possible.

[firstbabyhappy]

I thought of that too but my husband convent me from not doing that because one day he will pay for what's done nd what's he doing. But the weird part about it is that, he's my sister in law brother which really *****.

[firstbabyhappy]

I had it for almost 4 years and before I got with my husband I told I had herpes but he didn't care because he wants to rest of his life with me nd be a family nd love me which I think is so sweet nd I really love him.
I know stupid men's these days.
Thanks you guys(:

[mbote]

just be careful my friends bd gave her herpies to and she had to get csection on both kids. just b careful wish you the best

[parkersmommy]

Y'all are better people than me cause i'd be sitting in prison! I'm sorry you have to go through this and I really hope you get to have a vaginal birth like you want. Good luck!

[alexiah]

Hopefully everything comes outs good with u and your baby sometimes over dumb guys that wanna stick their thing anywhere were the ones that suffer at the end even though we dont deserve it..if u dont mind me asking how long have u had it for

[firstbabyhappy]

Okay thanks a lot. I hope I have my baby normal.

[duggy57]

Ok, the same thing happened to me. My ex husband cheated and gave it to me. My Dr. Put me on a medicine to suppress outbreaks and has long as u are not having an out break at the time of labor you can have a vaginal birth and the baby will be fine.

[firstbabyhappy]

I have herpes. I just wish I never got it.

[HeatherLF16]

A friend of mine had clamydia in her teens and had scar tissue in her uterus because it caused her PID.  At 25 she got pregnant and delivered vaginally with no complications.  I on the other hand have never had an STD no scar tissue and had to have a csection because I pushed for 3 hours and my baby was too big to come out.  My point is you never know until you get to delivery...  even women who have had previous csections have been delivering vaginally with their next pregnancy (becomming more common).  If your doctor hasn't mentioned it prepare to deliver vaginally and expect the unexpected.  Good luck :)

[trying43]

It depends on what std it is.  There are different precautions for different stds

[duggy57]

Which std?

[Lesley27]

What is the STD/STI your talking about? there are different concerns with different types...