angry pregnancy

[lovejaden]

Good Morning, I'm 14 weeks pregnant and me and my boyfriend haven't been see eye to eye since I been pregnant and I just dont know what to do about the situation... He truly dont won't to have the baby are have anything to do with the baby if I keep but he still want to be in a relationship with me but not our unborn child... I need help we argue everyday bout the baby in I Feel like I should just in our relationship before anything...

[ashes00]

I think he's just really scared of the new role, one of my friend's boyfriend was like that when they found out she was expecting. but once the baby was born it changed everything. He's probably scared of the changes that will happen. and that he will have someone who is counting on him other than you. Don't let him make you choose between a baby and the relationship. no relationship is worth it if it makes you pick.

[danni946]

the love of a baby is unmatched you never no how he will feel once the baby is here! do what is best for you don't let anyone sway your decision especially about something so life changing,

[Mom2amiracle2012]

You might want to go to counseling, but do not let him scare you! In general, the first trimester is so hard when it comes to emotions and that goes for his too!

[mom2b819]

That's crazy but maybe he is scared because of this new role he will have as a father... guys take time to adjust to such a big change.. is there a reason he doesn't want u to keep it?? Try talking to him to get to the bottom of it and if ur not satisfied with his answer, then like Ginger said its time for him to go

[Ginger077]

The best advise I can give you would be don't let ANYONE tell you what you should or shouldn't do. At the end of the day you have to be happy with the decisions you make. A baby is truly one of gods greatest miracles! In my opinion no man or relationship is worth sacraficing an unborn child over. If he's not supporting your decision then he should find the door, bullying you into aborting your baby is just plain wrong. If you decide you are going to go with his decision make sure you really think about all the consequences. There are lots of couples who would love to adopt a child who can't have one of their own. Please find the strength and courage to stand up for yourself and your baby. I'm sure your family and friends will help you if you decide to end your relationship. Stress isn't good for you or the baby so I hope you can resolve your issues quickly. Best of luck to you.