any advice plzzzzz

[miss_kiss]

hii!! i am 20yrs old, i havnt had a period since march 2011,i had a lil spotting beginning of april,im getting sharp period like cramps have been 4 about 7weeks but nothing,i feel ill all the time!! its really starting 2 get me down  i have done several tests which came back negative??

[Nanasrose]

hi! when i had my youngest child i had my cycle for about four months. I would get sharp pains just like i was going to start, some times i would have a very light pink show for about two days (mine used to be a week long) and then go away, come back a day or two later. the next month would have a almost normal flow, i would have the cramps like normal and get sick and just want to lay around. this would go on for about a year, then i noticed that my cycle started to change, i would go a month without one and take a test and come up negative, or i have it for a week and go away, come back a week later and last about three days, this went one but each time the months of missing a cycle would get longer, to make the long story short, some women are starting a life change early. yes, i months when i had no cycle and i had cramps like i would start and i was getting so tired of it, soon it stopped.  My son is sixteen now and i haven't had a cycle for the last twelve years and i sure don't miss it. i know a life change can take a long time for some and i sure wish i would hurry up, the only thing i hate about it is i cry over the most stupidest things, yesterday i was out side and the wind blew a leaf across the yard and i found myself crying, hot flashes are another and lets not forget the mood swings, sometimes i feel sorry for my boyfriend, he has to put up with it, i have to say he's doing a great job at it.  the point i'm getting at, is you may be going throw a life change, if you still have problems and are unsure, go see a doctor.  good luckl

[sam2486]

hello miss_kiss...if u r not getting yr periods since march it means u r in state of secondary amenorrhoea..i wuld like to know is there any sexual history or unprotected sexual intercourse..if yes then go for urine pregnancy test.if it gets positive then  ur pregnant..and if there is no sexual history or urine pregnancy test negative then we wll rule out pregnancy..and u need to investigate under some hormonal essay especially thyroid profile.....in hypothyroidism condition where thyroid hormone releases less ..u may get oligomenorrhoea or amenorrhoea later...so i advise u to consult good gynecologist....so dont worry and just check yrself to good gynecologist...all the best..bye

[miss_kiss]

thanx guys,ive done more blood tests goin docs next week! i dont understand y my bellys gettin bigger m8s have said it looks like a pregnancy bump. i wud really love 2 be pregnant its been over 100 days without a period (i never had a positive test wit my child)