baby daddy issues

[carcarly31]

Even though me and my baby daddy (sperm donor) go to the same college we don't have any of the same classes but I'm starting to notice that he's been walking by all my classes peaking in my class to see if I'm in there and the other day he walked by my class and he was on the phone with some one saying yeah she's here today my biggest fear right now is him having someone come after me and being 31 weeks and 5 days pregnant It's starting to worry me what should I do

[mommiKat]

I agree with everyone^^^ I honestly thought there was more to this story. Does sound like some middle school drama.  I suggest you guys talk it out. & get everything situated before baby comes.  You guys are gonna need to establish some type of relationship anyways for the baby. Having this aminosity won't do the baby any good.  Best of luck to you momma!

[proudFTMTeTe]

i don't think she means actual sperm donor lol i think she means he just her baby daddy nothing less nothing more there not together or have any kind of relationship

[itzchelle]

Uhh I thought the identity of a sperm donor must be anonymous... and if he truly is just a sperm donor then you have nothing to worry cuz the law prevents him to take your baby back or do anything to you.

[joezee92]

Yea sounds like just middle school drama. That's not going to get you and your baby daddy know where. If you guys really care about your baby drop the ******** and try to get a long for her. You dont have to be together but get a long. But if he is hurting you then get a restraining order or something and just take him yo court for child support. That's all you have yo do.

[proudFTMTeTe]

it sounds like he is just checking on the mother of his child u haven't said anything that makes him sound like a bad.person but it seem like u just don't like him idk cuz like stated it seems to be missing some of the story but if he is trying to be apart of his child life its not about wat you want it is wat it's best for the child unless he is abusive

[kcwayman]

Sounds like drama without cause. Feel like I'm in middle school again.

[carcarly31]

It's is she whole story I haven't talked to him in sine I was 18 weeks I had message me saying that you don't need to Stalk me I'm not due till June 27th but any with anything he's going to be late he read it never said anything back but be sides that I don't want him in the room when I give birth all he does is cause stress and I don't want to be around him when I give birth

[ericatoday]

Without knowing what's going on between you too so far to me it just sounds like he walks by to see if you're there to check on you because he's worried and maybe on the phone he was just letting someone know. Its hard to go out that late in pregnancy sometimes. But without the whole story just sounds like he's checking on you.

[hazel413]

Girl, im not sure the whole story is here.

I might just be slow.....
But you have my attention. Please start from the beginning. N are you feeling scared or just over his stalking as* ???

[shellc428]

Sorry it cut me off

maybe he is just seeing if you are there or had the baby. Most guys dont know how many weeks we are.

[shellc428]

Maybe its his mom.lol

but in all seriousness without the full story that doeant

[rebeccaann11]

Unless he he been violent before or he has said he would hurt you.
I don't think you have anything to worry abiut.

[chantibabii]

Why do u think he will hurt you

[rebeccaann11]

Maybe he is concerned you'll have the baby and he will miss it???

[mommiKat]

I feel like there are some missing pieces tob this story,  what would make him want to harm you?  

[Nina159]

Would he go as far as to hurt you ?? That be scary or creepy if he known to be violent or abusive in some way. If not maybe he making sure you ok or haven't had the baby but he should ask you that him self