HELP i am scared

[channie521]

hi i am 19 weeks pregnant and have not felt my baby move at all i am scared i have never experienced a baby dieing inside of me nor have i had a miscarriage EVER i have on the other hand lost a child at the age of 4 1/2 months to SIDS but this matter is frightening i am unsure on how i should no, feel, etc basically i just need to no will i no, will i feel sick from it, and just simple little answers to prepare myself for what me and my husband may have to experience

[mommyTobe_12]

im going to be 18 weeks ina few days. i THINK i only felt my baby move once. ive never been pregnant so i dont know what to feel for, or how to know if it really was my baby. but at my 12 week appt. when my doctor did my u/s he said the babby wouldnt keep still ! it was kinda funny cos kept flipping around and all that. so maybe its just the position the babys in, you'll feel it soon !

[rmmoye]

relax most women dont feel the baby this early.


I am so sorry for your loss of your 4 and 1/2 month. I cant imagine your pain. A mc is bad but that has to be much worse.

[coffeebuzzedliz]

During my first pregnancy I did not feel the baby moving until 22 weeks, everything was fine I just didn't feel the baby moving. After 22 weeks I would feel the baby moving a lot.

[sorenr]

You will probably start to feel it soon...I'm at the same stage and only feel baby moving now and again, and only when I'm really still. I had my detailed scan a couple of days ago which put my mind at rest a lot as it showed that baby is moving much more than I'm feeling it...I cant remember when I really started to feel proper movement with my other 2, its been a long time!

[lilbit_17]

It's completely normal :) its all about placental and baby position. You could always make an appt for a scan to put your mind at ease.