my first baby and im a little concerned

[first_timer20]

So I'm 20 years old and I'm 9weeks.. my first question is... I noticed on my side near my bladder i experienced pain and a lump.. am i okay??? My second question is I have a discharge that is normal colored but has a odor.. what does that mean??? Please help kinda nervous

[first_timer20]

:-) okay thanks u helped me alot

[Clysta]

That depends largely on your state laws and where you live. Remember this though - It doesn't matter how your partner feels, only YOU can make that choice. He could leave, but then you know what kind of person he really is and that's not someone you want to spend your life with. You want someone who will take responsibly for the actions HE made, not find some way to make them disappear so you don't have to deal with it.

[first_timer20]

Also my boyfriend is getting cold feet about the baby thing and i don't want to have an abortion but Up to how far into your pregnancy do you have before you can't get one

[first_timer20]

If i pushed it it was painful i didn't really try to move it but you may b right it might have just been gas because i dnt have the lump anymore but what's weird is that in that area its still alilttle sore

[Clysta]

Was it painful at all, or could you move it? It could be just from gas or bloating, which are both common in pregnancy. All women have some form of odour to their discharge, and some is so mild it's close to undetectable. Unless it is offensive or fishy (or you have foul discharge that is gray, green or lumpy white) it usually is not a problem. To reduce odour, you can use liners to keep it off your clothing, and you need to make sure you change it frequently.  

[first_timer20]

The lump was there for like 2days but it isn't there anymore i just wanted to know if that was normal and thank you

[cnj76]

I'm not sure about the lump? Maybe get that checked out?
It's normal to have discharge but it shouldn't have an odor. It may have a slight one but for you to notice, I'm not sure. You could have an infection or some sort. Call and let your doctor know.