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hi, so I also have a crazy question. I'm 18 years old and I've never had sex, but just recently, a guy fingered me, in my butt, which is kinda weird ahha. but he touched his penis right before but I don't know if was, if any precum. Is that even possible to get pregnant that way? pleeeease answer asap.
well it juuust happened like two days ago, so i can't really test just yet :/
i know it would be juices, but i guess crazier things have happened.
i know it would be juices, but i guess crazier things have happened.
If you're still freaking out and nothing anyone has already said, go take an at home pregnancy test. I don't understand why people will come on here and worry and fret when they haven't done that very easy first step to finding out an answer. Also, if you were wet after and he did nothing but put his fingers in, it's cause it got your juices flowing and turned you on as well, as much as you may find the situation odd.
i know i know, it's just my paranoia at this point. & it was all with the wrong guy for sure.
common sense should tell me this, but i don't know, it's just my crazy thoughts i guess.
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yeah, good way to put it haha.
common sense should tell me this, but i don't know, it's just my crazy thoughts i guess.
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yeah, good way to put it haha.
This is a LOT of speculation. He MIGHT have touched himself, it MIGHT have gotten on your vagina IF he touched himself. Those aren't exactly odds to worry yourself over.
To be honest, I don't think we'll actually be able to calm you about this. We've already said pregnancy is near impossible--just common sense alone tells a person this. You didn't do anything even remotely close to getting yourself pregnant. You honestly have a better chance of being struck by lightening tomorrow than you do of pregnancy.
To be honest, I don't think we'll actually be able to calm you about this. We've already said pregnancy is near impossible--just common sense alone tells a person this. You didn't do anything even remotely close to getting yourself pregnant. You honestly have a better chance of being struck by lightening tomorrow than you do of pregnancy.
i know, i haven't been ready for a while, and i don't think i will be anytime soon. especially because i want to wait to get married to have sex, but I still obviously freak out over nothing. I'm just worried, if there was preejaculate fluid and he had it on his hands then touched me, if he could have brushed over my vagina or something and it got in. or if it could have gotten caught in the fluid and moved there. i'm praying nothing will happen.
You are freaking out over nothing. Relax, you won't get pregnant. The pre-ejaculation is not going to jump from your anus to your vagina and magically get you pregnant. Just look at this as a learning lesson to wait to do anything sexual until you feel ready because you are obviously not ready at the moment.
Not really. It's the exact same as ejaculation. Only reason it's call pre-ejaculation is because it comes before a male fully ejaculates.
The only reason it wouldn't survive is because (as stated before) the anus is NOT a suitable environment for sperm. You don't get pregnant through the rectum, so there's no reason for it to be suitable.
The only reason it wouldn't survive is because (as stated before) the anus is NOT a suitable environment for sperm. You don't get pregnant through the rectum, so there's no reason for it to be suitable.
Not from what you've described. To "leak" there has to be something actually there. I very highly doubt there was, and IF there migh have been it's not going to survive.
it is very disturbing lol to be honest. this is the first time it's happened, which is maybe part of the reason i'm asking all these crazy questions lol.
its not likely for it to "leak" then, correct lol
its not likely for it to "leak" then, correct lol
Pre-ejaculation is still ejaculation, so it's always possible. But in the case I'd say no.
Personally, I think the idea of someone inserting their fingers into your rectum is a lot more disturbing than a penis. But I refuse to have anything stuck there (too dangerous for my liking) so it's all disturbing to me. :)
Personally, I think the idea of someone inserting their fingers into your rectum is a lot more disturbing than a penis. But I refuse to have anything stuck there (too dangerous for my liking) so it's all disturbing to me. :)
like if he actually went in my anus with his penis? lol ugh i hate how tht sounds. but yeah, i didn't think it was too possible, but i just felt really wet when i was going home and i kept thinking what if he had something on his hands and it got near my vagina & i swear i thought i saw him at least like adjust himself but i didn't know if there was anything there. so if he did have precum, it still wouldn't be possible?
In order to survive, sperm must be able to swim in cervical mucous. It's possible for sperm to be able to live for up to five days in the perfect condition. The anus, just isn't one of them. There is no fluid for it to swim in, and there are no reproductive organs there. If he had ejaculated inside your anus, it's possible it could drip into your vagina, but with what you've described...there's no way you're pregnant.
i suppose that's a good point! but yeahh, i'm definitely not too sure if there was anything, but i guess i'm making myself think there was something, becauuuse i'm the most paranoid person in the world.
so you'd say even if there was actually sperm on his hand(there wasn't SPERM, but still just asking), it would still be pretty not likely?
so you'd say even if there was actually sperm on his hand(there wasn't SPERM, but still just asking), it would still be pretty not likely?
It does, but you also have to think about a lot of other things. 1-You have to be ovulating. An egg is ONLY viable for 12-24 hours. If you're not ovulating, pregnancy is impossible. Another is that there are millions of sperm in one drop of seminal fluid. This is why if a male has a low sperm count, pregnancy is close to impossible. Not all the sperm are perfect. Many are deformed, slow, or might just be bad overall. If you had had sex (vaginal) then yes you would have actual cause for concern. Having someone insert their fingers into your rectum and MAYBE having pre-ejaculation on their hands.....not really a good reason. You're not even sure if there was anything.
Yes, I'm extremely sure. I promise, you're not pregnant.
Yes, I'm extremely sure. I promise, you're not pregnant.
are you sure?! that makes me feel a litttle bit better, but i'm still kinda scared lol.
isn't it just like it takes one for something to occur though?
isn't it just like it takes one for something to occur though?
If it's in the rectum, there has to be large amounts for it to do anything. To even survive long it has to be in a good condition, and the anus isn't one of em.
welll because I know pre ***/*** doesn't exactly die once it hits the air. so I'm just worried that if it was still wet and he went inside it could have gotten somewhere, yeah?
I've always been really paranoid about this kind of stuff, especially because I don't get my period every month, so it's more difficult for me to tell. I definitely should just stop sexual activities hahah. this is terrrible.
I've always been really paranoid about this kind of stuff, especially because I don't get my period every month, so it's more difficult for me to tell. I definitely should just stop sexual activities hahah. this is terrrible.
Why are you scared? This is based on the chance that he MIGHT have gotten pre-ejaculation on his hand and for it to "leak" you would have had to had anal sex.
I would suggest you also abstain from sexual activities of all kind. This shouldn't be causing fear like this. The chance of pregnancy is none.
I would suggest you also abstain from sexual activities of all kind. This shouldn't be causing fear like this. The chance of pregnancy is none.
what if it leaked? i felt really wet so i'm scared if it could have leaked into tht and gone somewhere it shouldn't. i'm soo scareddd.
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