2 possible babies fathers

[chelsearenae816]

Ok so I was in a relationship with my ex , I moved out of state with him and one of the times I vame back home for a visit , I got really messed up and cheated with my best friend (no excuse ) . But weeks later I found out I was pregnant . = / . I had sex with my ex on the 29th & the other guy on the 2nd . And that was my ovulating week . My ex was very supportive of the whole situation (even tho he knew the possibility ) up untill the 7th month and I moved back home . The other guy said he would be there to support me but wont respond to my phone calls or texts . My ex barely talks to me . Anyone else is a similar situation ???

[deedivine]

With my first pregnancy I was in the same boat. (Sadly, my daughter is no longer with us.) Don't listen to the other girls. What you need to do is focus on yourself and the baby make sure everything is healthy and good. Things will work out in the end I promise

[jackee856]

It will all work out....I was in the same situation with my first son. One of the guys wanted to be there and the other wanted nothing to do with me. It was very hard going through my pregnancy with no support other than family of course. But of course I was talked about and I was always embrassed to answer the question about my son's father. But when my son was about 4 months old we got the test done....The father turned out to be the guy who didn't want anything to do with me. But like I said it will work out just like it worked out for me....just continue to do what's best for you and your child:)

[bsconcerned]

I didn't mean to come across in the wrong way it just sounded like what you were upset about is that neither will really talk to you etc and I was just giving my opinion that I don't blame them and don't feel like you can expect them too. But it does also sound like your concerned they don't want to do the paternity test and they can and will be court mandated. I don't feel they should have to pay for it because of your mistake but it is in a way still their responsibility,  the price you pay for unprotected sex, even the one that is not the father still put himself in the position that he could be.

[scarletbegoniass]

I can't believe some of the rude responses you're getting. I have not been in a situation like this but I'm sure your son will not suffer from this and hopefully one of them will come around and help you out.

[ash060115]

Your son won't suffer you'll raise him with love and good morals.
But you can't expect either potential father to be supportive right now.
Hopefully you get dna soon and the dad is in his life.

[chelsearenae816]

Thank you girl ! I understand im in the wrong ! My son is my only priority ! It really dont matter which one is the father , just hope which ever one it is that they will step up and be a good father !

[sammy1219]

Damn that's crazy this supposed to be a forum for help not criticism u do gotta get that dna test and right now u should just focus on you and that baby cause regardless of who the father is its you and that baby worry about that when the baby is here cause u can't do nothing about the situation now chin up eyes open hun!

[chelsearenae816]

I kno I f***** up . Im not asking nothing from either of them . I did mess up but my best friend helped me make the mistake I made . I didnt post this to get judged , just asking for support . My son shouldnt have to suffer from my mess ups .

[ash060115]

You only need one to do the test really. If its not one its the other.
I don't know why they'd refuse to take part in the test but they shouldn't have to pay for it thats your expense.... in fairness without sounding like a **** it is your own fault. It brings a whole new meaning to - you made your bed now must lye in it.

[cindiie]

Time to call The Maury show

[bsconcerned]

I honestly don't blame them for staying away.. but they will both have to take a court mandated paternity test.. but until that happens you can't expect you hold either of them responsible.. it's definitely a hard situation but you out yourself there.

[Bigmama121]

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[Bigmama121]

I don't get why they wouldn't want to see who is the faster of your baby :/ maybe just wait until he/she I born , they may change their minds , plus the baby will look like one I them

[chelsearenae816]

I have . But either are wanting to take the dna now .

[ash060115]

Thats really messed up. You need to back away from both guys and get a dna done.