normal to feel so worried ???

[kirsty702]

Hey guys !! i found out that i am preggo yesterday me and my huby are over the moon we had m/c jan 2008 and this is the fisrt time we have wanted to try, thing is i lost my baby early on i was only about 5/6 weeks, i am around 4 weeks i think and i am just really worried i was over the moon last night but i have not slept alot thinking about things and i know this sounds silly but every little twinge that i feel i think that its something wrong i dont know if i am thinking that i am feeling them so strange how the mind plays tricks on you, also finding myself getting up in the night and checking for blood !! am i just over reacting or is this normal !! x x oh p.s i am really excited to i could burst !!!

[kirsty702]

Thanks !! i will try not to worry so much and i suppose that all i can do is try to do the right things and the rest isnt up to me but it is really scary !! and you have to try not to worry so much to and i know how hard that is !! i hope everything goes perfect for you and that you will soon have your bouncing baby boy in your arms xx

[ammanda]

Hi!!!!
I am 23 wks with my my first baby!! My son. and I was so nervous (still am) Every little stomach pain or weird feeling, I would call my mom or my sister to get some reassurance. It's all normal. To this day I still worry that something can happen and sometimes it drives me insane, and I know it drives my family and fiancee insane. But I can't help it, you know, it's my first pregnancy and we planned this baby, tried for 6 months until I got pregnant.  I couldn't imagine losing my baby. Especially now that I'm so far along and know that its "my son" and now that I feel him move all day everyday(he's so active).  Even now I worry so much about labor, and if somethings gonna be wrong when he's born.  I gotta calm down and quit worrying so much.  But it's not easy.  My fiancee lost a son in a previous relationship 2 years ago, at birth.  and all they would give for a reason is that his stomach was expanded or something like that.  I don't know I didn't understand, but it was so hard on him.  He's so happy to have a chance to have a son again.  Worrying is normal in pregnancy, be positive and keep your head up, I'm sure all will be well for you guys :)  

[tarajanes]

And you hun..excited aint the word for it.want it over with now.xx

[kirsty702]

Thanks and congrats to you, i bet you are getting excited now !! i hope everything goes perfect for you !! x

[tarajanes]

Yay congratulations hun.What your feeling is perfectly normal.trust me ive had 7 losses.all around the 9-12 week mark.and currently 33 weeks just gone.every twinge or somthing different makes me freak out.all women feel this your not alone.1 in 4 mc.usually chromozone reasons.it does get easyier believe me,enjoy this pregnancy,stay positive and look after yourself.
Im sure everything is fine.congrats again...