daddy drama

[miley24]

my mom just went nuts on me cuz there will be no father involved....she says shes embarrassed

[Toriiee]

or wen yu go into the courts after the babys born for child support nd if the fathers not on the birth certificate they will automatically order a dna test before anything to make sure he is the father...

[Cookiex15]

My mom would throw a party if i seperated from mine..

[JewelzD]

you can call DNA diagnostics center they are all over the world and i think when baby is born u can go to local Welfare office and they can send for one and put him on child Supp

[miley24]

ugh this is so ****** they can **** u but not help...

[mommy2b91]

O well I'm not sure

[miley24]

i live in canada...ottawa

[mommy2b91]

Are u in the Usa? We have places here & they can do wen Baby is born

[miley24]

he knows he doesnt think its his and now i gotta go through dna test and all that i dony even know where to go for all this ********

[mommy2b91]

I was saying send him a letter in the mail letting him kno u want him to be in ur childs life ..mayb

[miley24]

a letter in the mail?

[mommy2b91]

No not thru court a letter in the mail..I have no idea how long a court process would take I know u can file for child support after the baby is born

[miley24]

thx...ya i regret it too my parents forced me...and ya i would never do it again!! and my moms ok with me having the baby she just thinks i should be married to the guy im having it with its 2012....**** doesnt work like that but like...meaning i have to go through court? like after the babies born...how long is the process?

[mommy2b91]

The same happened with me but I was in 11th grade & my mom thinks I'm going thru that again no!!!! I still regret having to do it..maybe send him a letter or text about how u really feel & maybe it will relieve some stress he may come around..u can msg me if u ever wan talk

[miley24]

well im 24...i got pregnant at 15 and i wont lie i had a abortion i was in 10th grade...and then i got pregnant now...i seriously thougth i couldnt have children after that there was so many times i thought i was prego...i feel this as a blessing thats why im so worried about all this and now the no father:(

[mommy2b91]

That is so mean my crazy mother would say something like that...I've learned to tell myself they react & say things out of anger our parents want the best for us but need to show it better ..my mom doesn't think I should have a child but its my life she lived hers

[miley24]

thanks:)

[JewelzD]

you cant make the father be involved if he dont want to men need to grow up it makes me sick they can lay down and make the baby and feel no obligation to stay ugh your better off not having him in u or babys life you will be mommy and daddy thats all baby needs

[miley24]

its hard tho cuz im living here....with them and there helping me alot like i have a fulltime job with benefits buy no help from the dad so....like my parents do VERY well for themselves we live in a huge house etc and my moms going nuts buying the baby things everything and anything i want but i dont know how to get yhe father involved...

[baby2_on_the_way]

Good thing its not her baby or her life... It is yours! That is very rude of her. Sorry you have to deal with that and just explain why to her and leave it at that