what to do :(

[A_J_G]

When your bf still parties too much,what do you do about it...n when he messages girls on fb once he's.drunk...just need advice

[MommaBear1991]

My mom said "The only time a woman succeeds in changing a man is when he is a baby. So throw that diaper out!" Lol

[valarie21]

Leave him. He'll either continue to do what he does or he'll wake up & get his  s h I t  together. You & baby don't need all that

[lexabug]

My boyfriend drinks excessively... and I found out he lied to me about doing something so the next day I went to his house collected my things then asked him for the truth he wouldnt give it to me but I knew he was lying so I asked him if it was worth it and started walking out he grabbed me started balling apologized and we had a long talk about all of feelings we ended up staying together and having amazing sex tmi i know ... but he completely changed his ways... now 6 weeks later on his 21 st bday we found out we were pregnant.. that baby was made the day we made up.. and sometimes I regret it and should ha e walked that day.. but I love him so I'm all I'm for it even though I hate him when I'm not with him lol... idk girl you just need to follow your heart and do what sounds and seems best for you and your baby!:) good luck!:)

[MommaBear1991]

My boyfriend... sorry. ex boyfriend was the same, plus playing with knives, guns, explosives, his games, etc... i told him we're done, show me you can grow up and you can be in the babies life. "I still love you, i miss you! Why can't we be friends," and so on. i told him this has nothing to do with love, its about the baby. i don't need a friend, i need a man who can be a father. its hard. i still cry. he was a great boyfriend, but he's not good for the baby. Inbox me if you want to talk, hon. its not easy to do but that baby of yours comes FIRST.

[jgonzaleznewmama]

I'm having problems too where he'd ignore me all day.  And gives. A stupid excuse. But. I feel like he's neglecting me so I always tell him. How I feel bit he dodges it but I wud just tell him to get his sh** straight or. Give him a ultimatum

[Jaidex]

Tell him to sort his arse out or leave! That little boy has to come first and if hes not ready he should of thought about that before hand! All the best to you girl.

[Kimberly_90]

I was always told a drunk man tells no lie and give him an option either he gets it together or he can leave. Its just that simple!

[A_J_G]

I've told him once I found out...I just want our lil family to be together n grow up with us as a whole...I dread the weekends when he's off cause its just the same routine n I'm tired of it...he's so excited about being a dad but feels to me a family won't happen :(

[BreyBreyy]

Id tell him to get his sh** together for your son or he can leave. You have to be a mom and do whats best for you and him. Its no longer about other people just you and your little boy. Dont let his stupidity and actions put you down, leave him if he continues what he's doing no matter how much you love him

[shell132]

Talk to him about it

[A_J_G]

N I'm 6 months pregnant with our baby boy