Worried about being pregnant: fearful or just worried?

[Sonia_Arjan]

Hi all, I did not have penetrative sex but there was fingering and dry humping. my boyfriend fingered me after touching his penis and he got some pre *** in his hands but before he fingered me, he made sure his hands were dry (not wash but dry), actually after touching himself and getting precum on his hands he wiped it on his belly and on my upper body. He also let me feel his hands to confirm its dry before fingering me. My question is: do I have a pregnancy risk? If so, is it high? Lastly we also dry hump but he was naked but I had shorts, a pad and underwear on and he got a few spots of pre *** on the outer of my shorts. does this also pose as a risk?

[Sonia_Arjan]

why do some say sperm does survive even in air? Does this apply to fresh semen ejaculate or just for pre ejaculate?

[Sonia_Arjan]

Thank you proudmama and everyone else. Sorry I can't type well, using my mobile. Really thank you everyone for replying swiftly and being patient

[Sonia_Arjan]

thanks mamabear. It's just that we always are safe. Even when dry humping, we make sure one partner has his/her undergarment and shorts on and also make sure our hands are dry before fingering. And when he comes like truly ejaculate (not pre come) he will thoroughly wash his hands or not touch my private parts till he can wash his hands. I'm just still afraid and nervous. I need to constantly re-read replies and comments to remind myself. I think I will never enjoy intimacy anymore.

[Proudmama86]

I know for sure you have absolutely nothing to worry about with the dry humping n stuff on ur shorts cause even if it didnt die it would somehow have to manage to get thru ur shorts then somehow thru the pad without getting soaked up then still thru ur panties and into you then still make that long journey to where its gotta go and with the fingering after wiping it on it himself and u and it drying up I seriously doubt theres any kind of risk there either

[Mamabear0509]

Theres really no way girl. Don't stress yourself out. Even if it was your ovulation time its pretty much impossible that that would get you pregnant.

[Sonia_Arjan]

Hey ladies, so I have no risk at all for both situations? Im just paranoid I ever had a similar scare so bf is aware of my "finger" fears. Why do some people say sperm does not die when it hits the air? Are they referring to a glob of sperm or just like wet spots from pre come on hands? LASTLY I NEED SERIOUS HELP TO GET OVER THIS FEAR. I have convinced myself I'm preggers and stuff even though the rational part of me knows I got nothing to worry about,. Help please. Thank you again

[Proudmama86]

No u have nothing to worry about especially with all the layers of stuff it would have tried to go thru (if it did that lol but it dont so ur good)

[Sundae254]

No...
When sperm hits air it dies within seconds