who had these signs bb4 their missd period?:/

[Bayybii2010]

im due for my period n 4 days. Past week or more i have had lower light belly cramps right above the pubic line, past about 3-4 days my breaste have grown n become very sore, i have only felt sick a few times n got sick once. 2 days ago  i became constipated and about  3-4 days ago gas startd.

[mami1323]

This is why I stay away from the teen concern forum because it just baffles me the way some teenagers think.  I know it happens but when teens come on and tell of their experiences and wish that they had waited and are genuinely concerned and they get beaten on and told off just for voicing their opinions, then it really bothers me.  I'm not better because I'm 32 and waited, I just have more life experience and can offer the best advice I know how.  You have experience because you are going through it as we speak.  But sometimes we just can't get through and it's ok.  At least you tried.

[worrieddd612]

you don't know about the real world and takin care of kids because you aren't responsible for them financially.

[ammanda]

Bayybii- no one is trying to run you out of here. just trying to help u, like you asked.  its not our faults you couldnt take the truth.  But if you feel like you have to run away from reasoning then go.. but dont be angry with us on here.  We are here to help one another, and obviously we have a bit more knowledge and maturity then you do.. If I was 18 and wanted a kid for some god reason, I would pray that there would be some one there to talk me out of it.  But owell this is a great place to be, so your loss.


Mami-  Yea we dont know anything.. Shes knows it all... but the problem is, shes making me out to seem like this mean person and im not, im just trying to help her like she asked for and she doesnt seem to get that.  Im 20 years old and 29 weeks pregnant and terrified, and I have the world at my feet when it comes to support, but still nothing will ever make me stop worrying... gosh Im so just amazed...

[mami1323]

Better to rely on your smart friends who give you wrong advice then us dumb folk.

[mami1323]

Yes, you are correct.  I'm 32 and have a 2 1/2 year old and I struggle, but hey what do I know.

[worrieddd612]

oh & also i got pregnant unexpectedly at 18 im now 19 and i had to drop out of school.. who knows when ill be able to finish school, but it certainly won't be anytime soon..my college plans are on hold and now it is the baby's father's schooling that has taken priority as he only has about a semester or two left, i have no choice but to rely on him to support me for almost everything. everything else my parents have to take care of. im 6 months pregnant, its too late to get a job, i don't have a college degree, etc....think HARD before you try to have this life. don't get me wrong i love my daughter already and i do not regret her, but like i said this isn't the way i would have chosen to do things. your future child deserves more.