who had these signs bb4 their missd period?:/

[Bayybii2010]

im due for my period n 4 days. Past week or more i have had lower light belly cramps right above the pubic line, past about 3-4 days my breaste have grown n become very sore, i have only felt sick a few times n got sick once. 2 days ago  i became constipated and about  3-4 days ago gas startd.

[worrieddd612]

i personally don't think you should be trying to conceive a child and saying your sister and brother in law will help you. how is that in anyway fair to them? and i hate to tell you but theres no way your gonna be able to balance college and a baby while your child is still very young. so if you conceive again your college plans are out for now unless you plan on never being around your baby. and you can forget the medical field because that won't happen for another 5 or 6 years when your child is in kindergarten. and even then how you plannin on payin for college when you've got a child in school? its not all fun & games it is VERY expensive and there are very few 18 year olds that can afford it on their own. you cannot just go trying to have a baby and expect other people to pick up the slack when you succeed. do your sister and her husband know your trying? i would be furious if i were them. i think you need to think harder about this, just because your a nanny during the day.

[mami1323]

Relax, you sound so angry.  If you're so responsible than why do you need help from your brother in law and sister?  Shouldn't you be able to handle it since you are such a good mom?  I wonder how the mother you live with would feel knowing that you call her children your own.  I'm not saying you can't handle it, I never said that, I said that most people think they can handle it and when it comes down to it, they realize how difficult it is.  What do these parents do?  Since they never seem to be around.  I mean gosh, why don't you adopt them and make them your own.  I just can't fathom that people would have children and not ever be around and you never have a day off.  I'm sorry for your miscarriage, I wouldn't wish that on anyone and I'm sure it is very emotionally painful for you, as well as physically painful, perhaps that's why you are so hostile but there is no need for you to take it out on people who are offering up advice.  I mean that's what these forums are here for.  Again, if you don't want any advice, don't post.

[tarajanes]

Hun you have been mis informed you do not ovulate 14 days after your period,I would suggest you look more into conception my dear and stop relying on your friends advice.as it incorrect.im 36 and have a 16 year old son,and multible mc.after years of trying to concieve can assure you you dont ovulate 14 days after period.on a 28 day cycle is most likely.but not on a 31 day cycle.

Im sorry you have gone through this,but if you want a child you can no w be prepared with the correct advice you need in order to concieve.all the best.

[mami1323]

For the pain you are feeling try taking some extra strength midol and continue to use the heating pad or take a warm shower.

[mami1323]

I'm not here to lecture anyone because I have a cousin who is 18 and she's a very good parent to her son, however, being a nanny or babysitter is not the same as raising your own.  Watching a child during the day is not the same as waking up numerous times throughout the night, and still having to continue on during the day.  You are not raising them, you are babysitting them.  There is a huge difference in that.  Yes, you may have experience with children based on your nanny job or babysitting job but at the end of the day the parents come and pick them up and take them home, and the weekends you have free to do whatever you please.  You get to shower when they leave, you get to have a social life, you get to run to the store once they are gone.  So there is a big difference and you won't understand that until you are a parent.  My 18 year old cousin loves her son but when all her friends are running off to parties on a Friday and Saturday night, she's left home once again to care for her child.  She misses her youth, she misses her freedom.  She's very responsible and it can be done but it's not that easy.  As far as the father is concerned well, even though he says he will help you, there are no guarantees to that.  Plus, you two are not together and not living together so his help will be scarce.  He can come and go as he pleases and you will be the one who is caring for the baby the majority of the time.  What will you do for finances?  Who will pay for the baby?  What health insurance will you have for the baby?  Who will buy formula and diapers and wipes and clothing and all the necessities the baby will need?  What if the baby is born with special needs or down syndrome?  Who will watch your baby when you go to work?  Having a baby is much more work than people think.  It's exhausting, it takes a ton of work and it doesn't get easier as the baby gets older, there are constantly new challenges.  Just ask a mother with teenagers and see if she will say it's easier.  Bet the answer will surprise you.  Just sit and think about things before you decide that a baby is what you want.  

[Bayybii2010]

im n so much pain. I have to put a heatn pad on my belly. :(