Advice please?

[angieandbubble]

So, my boyfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks or so ago now and we were only together for about a month and a half. Up until a few days ago i thought i wasnt able to conceive, long story short i think i have (going to take a test tomorrow but may well be 6 weeks along already). I think he wanted kids, but how do i tell him that im pregnant?  What if he just see's it as a nuisance as im no longer with him? Granted, i am still in love with him so im still hurting. Im not really sure what to do, any help?

[EllaMari]

Well, now you need to figure out what you want to do. It is best to make this decision assuming he will not be involved. Are you able, financially, emotionally, and logistically, able to raise a child by yourself? If not, are you willing and able to go through a pregnancy to give the baby to an adoptive family? Then there is always abortion, for some women who do not wish to be pregnant this is a good option.

Think over your options before you talk to him. There are so many posters on these forums who's children's fathers promised to be there are no support them amended never followed through. Do what is best for YOU.

[angieandbubble]

Well, the tests came out positive...

[haleyblossom]

Until you take a test there's no need to worry. Hope all goes well

[ljo964]

Take the test first just to be 100% sure then just call him and ask to talk to him in person and tell him. If you go to a pregnancy clinic they can give you proof of pregnancy just incase he needs more assurance. I hope all goes well for you hun