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Am I over reacting?
Hey I dont now any were els to go I fill alone.... But here it is I have a boyfriend we been together for 1year and 3months at 4months he cheated on m we but I forgave him I am now get jealous for every little think like his ex has the same, initials as me he still talks to her and it bugs me I also get really jeslous wen he talk to girls with their girst name stsrting with the letter a my starts with a his ex starts with a and cheater girls name starts with a and I found a piture huging this girl from the side he seems happyer wen he aint with me he tells me he loves me and everything but wen he talkto other girls messages he seems morr intreasting wen we message its like mhmmm ya ok yup Im not sure wat im wanting of this most I just wanted to vent thanks for reading
Oh he was there but he had some issues with the school he had to attend to.:) and everything us awsome again we fixed it and im happy right now
Well......hmmm....he doesn't sound very attentive. Is there a good reason for him not picking you up?
Things don't sound like they are in your favor dear.
Things don't sound like they are in your favor dear.
Iv always felt so good to be with him bur recently his been like I dont know and today he was supose to pick me up from school and I get out and his no were to be found now his on his way home we dont live together but im with his mom and bros and sisster at the momment and his on his way I kinds want to leave couse I dont I get a filling he dont want to see me... I do have a over active mined and think about things to much so I asume he dont want to be with me but thats me thinking my mined is over reacting to this
Will agree with Hobby10 and Specialmom.
You should feel good in a relationship, not "on edge" and worried.
All the best.
You should feel good in a relationship, not "on edge" and worried.
All the best.
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HI there!
Here is what I think, you date to figure out if you want to take the relationshp to the next level. We have to look closely at our partners and decide if they are right for us.
Here is the problem that I have with what you've written. First of all, he cheated on you early into the relationship. That is a red flag that he has a bit of a character issue. He then continued to talk to the girl which isn't going to help you build trust.
I don't really get the being upset because he is talking to girls with the same initials---------- it is just the fact that he is talking/flirting with women. Do you think anything is going on?
And what REALLY worries me is that you are afraid to be honest with him and tell him what is wrong because he'll get mad at you. That indicates that your communication isn't good. That is something you either have to work on or the relationship will never work.
Now, I personally think that we must make choices when dating and sometimes moving on is for our own good. You've only given us one snippet of information here--- I'm sure there is a good side to him (hope so). You need to weigh your pros and cons and see if it is even worth thinking about working on this. Do NOT ignore red flags as they come back to haunt you. Look honestly at this. It is scary to leave sometimes but I think every woman deserves to be treated really well by their partner and shouldn't settle. good luck
Here is what I think, you date to figure out if you want to take the relationshp to the next level. We have to look closely at our partners and decide if they are right for us.
Here is the problem that I have with what you've written. First of all, he cheated on you early into the relationship. That is a red flag that he has a bit of a character issue. He then continued to talk to the girl which isn't going to help you build trust.
I don't really get the being upset because he is talking to girls with the same initials---------- it is just the fact that he is talking/flirting with women. Do you think anything is going on?
And what REALLY worries me is that you are afraid to be honest with him and tell him what is wrong because he'll get mad at you. That indicates that your communication isn't good. That is something you either have to work on or the relationship will never work.
Now, I personally think that we must make choices when dating and sometimes moving on is for our own good. You've only given us one snippet of information here--- I'm sure there is a good side to him (hope so). You need to weigh your pros and cons and see if it is even worth thinking about working on this. Do NOT ignore red flags as they come back to haunt you. Look honestly at this. It is scary to leave sometimes but I think every woman deserves to be treated really well by their partner and shouldn't settle. good luck
I meant love yourself. Not that I love you. But u probably knew what I meant. (don't knw ya well enough to lov ya!! Ha!)
Men don't usually change too dramatically usually, frm what I've seen. And two sad myths i I think we women want to believe in is that either it's our fault he acts the way he does and we need to do better And two, if I love him enough he will change. And a lot of times these are both untrue realities. Can't fix him. Fix you. Love you. All the best!!
Well then therapy sounds like the answer if he will go with you that is.If you love him and think this can work then try it,but if you think he is just a player then the show could be over.You need to resolve this one way or another.
I try to talk to him but I dont now were and how the conversation ends up or sometimes his get mad at me I always fill likes its always my fault so I say sorry and the relationship seems good but thoughs little things bug me
That's not right that he is flirting with other women,you should be his main focus but obviously you aren't.Anyone can say they love someone,that's easy,but they have to mean it.You both need to sit down together and talk through this,if the 2 of you can't sort it out the maybe therapy can.All the best.
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